NYCChick · 31-35, F
i had a ex who just kept telling what kind of bad girl i was when he was heavy on roids and mixed it with alchol like i couldnt do anything right for him finaly left him glad i did took alot out of me
moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@NYCChick gorl does he try to look for u
NYCChick · 31-35, F
@moonpeace81 he comes around cause we have a kid together but we arent close anymore he gets scary at times if i see he is mad high wont open the door
moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@NYCChick girl omg i feel for you ..olz be safe , he sounds like a red flag plz try and be safe .. you jnow these things never turn out well
You are very wise. Some women would stay, thereby staying abused. You're thinking of yourself and your child and that is so important. You're doing the right thing and I'll be praying for you that God will lead you and give you all the provisions you need. You have a good plan. You're right about everything you said and you must not tell him your plans. That might sound silly to say but some women do and then that just gives them time to manipulate and control more to get you to stay and this is one thing you cannot do and must not do, is stay. Do you have a plan? You could write me privately and tell me what and how you plan to do things and I can help you because I've been through all that. You'll be okay. Just let the Lord lead you and you will be okay. He will give you ideas you never thought of. Much love.
moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@LadyGrace yeah thank u i am trying my best here , i have a deep plan for him im just praying to god also not to lose my shit and end up in a worst situation.
moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@LadyGrace i have also learned his ways.. hes very manipulative , speaks on god and how men supposwd to treat women, but hes spitting in baby bottles(he told me he did to his friends kids for not paying him to babysit) , starting an argument evey other week that last for hours and i caught him slapping my toddler .. i wont say much but i have something dark for him
@moonpeace81 don't do anything to him. Just get out of there with your children. Oh I couldn't stand it if he was spitting in the kids baby bottle. Oh my gosh. When do you plan on leaving?
DrWatson · 70-79, M
If you are in the U.S., here is the number for the National Domestic Abuse Hotline
800-799-7233
Hopefully, someone there will give your the support and advice that you need.
Please keep yourself and your child safe.
800-799-7233
Hopefully, someone there will give your the support and advice that you need.
Please keep yourself and your child safe.
moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@DrWatson ty sir i have my mom i know she might give me some information , she lives in a 1 bedroom so i wouldnt leave to her , she asked me to move in her city but im nervous lol how u do create a new life somewhere ? i think i know my answer .. anyways thank u for this !! i will look into it
YoMomma · 41-45
I haven't but there are others who have and also organizations and programs to help tho in need of assistance to escape such things..
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
I ran away and didn't see them for 11 years. My x wife insisted that I start seeing my parents again. The physical abuse stopped but the mental abuse didn't.
moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@Cigarguy101 im sorry so sorry
Stealth moving can be tricky, you have to be OK with losing a lot of stuff. Getting control of the money is key, you need to start farming some to an account only you have access to. Save up as much as you can so you are ready.
Do not tell anyone what you are planning, even your best friends might betray you to him and that can be dangerous.
Tell him you are going to visit your parents and go the opposite direction and never come back.
Do not tell anyone what you are planning, even your best friends might betray you to him and that can be dangerous.
Tell him you are going to visit your parents and go the opposite direction and never come back.
moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@JamesBugman @JamesBugman mind u i have my own apartment , he begged me bc he was gonna be homeless ,, payed my rent and everything .. but i will eventually nees to relocate for GOOD out of my state bc he wont stop .
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
The first time he put his hands on me or my child would have been the last time. If he came around me or my child I would call the police
moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@smileylovesgaming the last time it took 4 of them to get him settled .. hence as to why i say hes dangerous ... but i agree , i have a deep plan for him .. i just dont wanna get killed in the process
Wiseacre · F
Never been in that situation.
And the other side of the story is....🤔
Oh, that's right. This is social media. 🤦🏻♂ What was I thinking?
Oh, that's right. This is social media. 🤦🏻♂ What was I thinking?
moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@SmileOnYourBrother so thier is another side to me as i speak on child abuse? yeah your one of THOSE boys
@moonpeace81 No, THERE is another side to every story.
Geezus, even the improper word (their) is misspelled. 🤦🏻♂
Geezus, even the improper word (their) is misspelled. 🤦🏻♂
moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@SmileOnYourBrother sure how about you go figure that out then since you got your degree and u know everything
is this mooncrest02 ?
moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@notingtodo i think lol
moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@notingtodo actually no .. this person has kids in hs lmao
@moonpeace81 kids in his what ?
Yes never assimilated by the system
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moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@mehmeh iv thought of this .. but i dont unfortunately some ppl like my mom and sis know the abuse i been through so a lot of ppl ate scared of him