How have u safely got away and kept away from abuser..?

For some time now i have been dealing with an extrememely abusive partner . To the point i listened to everytine he said he was gonna change his behavior, hes been physically and verbally violent with me and my kid. i know that i have to leave bc u can keep a fascade but for so long but i dont know where to go , i dont want to be in a shelter..i know this guy is dangerous and if i leave i have to disappear for good bc i have his kid and i feel he may try to hurt us like you hear the men doing nowadays bc the gf wants to leave for good.. i guess um having a hard time accepting im ultimately need to move out the state bc my sons father will stay always hunting me..

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JamesBugman

Stealth moving can be tricky, you have to be OK with losing a lot of stuff. Getting control of the money is key, you need to start farming some to an account only you have access to. Save up as much as you can so you are ready.
Do not tell anyone what you are planning, even your best friends might betray you to him and that can be dangerous.
Tell him you are going to visit your parents and go the opposite direction and never come back.

moonpeace81 · 31-35, F

@JamesBugman @JamesBugman mind u i have my own apartment , he begged me bc he was gonna be homeless ,, payed my rent and everything .. but i will eventually nees to relocate for GOOD out of my state bc he wont stop .