To fertile women
Would you have a baby for someone else and raise that child with generous financial support from the father who doesn’t want daily responsibilities but does want a child?
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Beautywithin · 36-40, F
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@Beautywithin Not deadbeat, financially supportive and part of the child’s life. Still probably not a lot of flocking but yeah.
RebelHeart · 36-40, F
I think theres definitely women that would agree to this. Women who would love a child but haven't met the right guy yet and is worried they're running out of time. Would be complicated though, especially later down the road when one partner met someone new and then it was like happy families and the orher partner felt left out
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@RebelHeart That makes sense.
RebelHeart · 36-40, F
@StevetheSleeve I've heard stories about friends whove agreed to have a child together because they both wanted one but hadn't found the right person. And women choose to have and raise children completely by themself now ( with a doner obviously... not immaculate conception) so i dont see why some women couldn't want a similar situation but with extra financial support and a partial father figure 🤷🏼♀️
RebelHeart · 36-40, F
BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@BarbossasHusband Truth here.
ElwoodBlues · M
Two points.
First, I'm pretty sure there are women out there who would definitely take this deal in a New York minute ... and ... they aren't really the women you want raising your child.
Second, look at it from the child's point of view at say, at age 18 when he/she learns the truth. "You mean I could have had a dad? I could have been part of a whole family?? But you didn't love me enough to be my dad???" Pretty much a guarantee of an F'ed up relationship with your child once they learn the truth.
First, I'm pretty sure there are women out there who would definitely take this deal in a New York minute ... and ... they aren't really the women you want raising your child.
Second, look at it from the child's point of view at say, at age 18 when he/she learns the truth. "You mean I could have had a dad? I could have been part of a whole family?? But you didn't love me enough to be my dad???" Pretty much a guarantee of an F'ed up relationship with your child once they learn the truth.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@ElwoodBlues Good points.
PassingThrough · 46-50, M
Valerian · 100+, M
That's NOT Wanting a Child in the slightest!
That's pure 100% Ego and Vanity at work.
It's only Proving your Fertility, making a Heir to carry on Genetics and maybe You finally getting to have Sex a few times until conception and then you Run Away sending Monthly “Daddy Checks"!
Total Shit!
That's pure 100% Ego and Vanity at work.
It's only Proving your Fertility, making a Heir to carry on Genetics and maybe You finally getting to have Sex a few times until conception and then you Run Away sending Monthly “Daddy Checks"!
Total Shit!
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Valerian · 100+, M
@StevetheSleeve it's you're thought Process
Just thinking that way... 97% of the women you mentioned that to would be quickly gone, 3% would ask for money up front
Just thinking that way... 97% of the women you mentioned that to would be quickly gone, 3% would ask for money up front
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
midnightrose · F
Would said father ever be in the child's life, have visits? There was a time I would have had a baby for somebody else so they could have a baby. And I've considered raising somebody else's child before even without financial support. However, I wonder why he would want a child if he didn't plan on raising it.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@midnightrose Let’s assume the hypothetical father would want to be a part of the child’s life, through an arrangement agreed to beforehand.
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RadioDust · 36-40, M
If I was a woman. Fuck no. They want a child, do the full work not make it a business transaction
SW-User
I don’t think so, no.
SW-User
@StevetheSleeve I baralh read what you posted I jusg woke up and havh only one eye open , but seems like it’s a post about you wanting a baby
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
SW-User
@StevetheSleeve Ooh now I see it , it’s a bit weird but I can see someone who’s financially struggling saying yes to that , I know some girls irl who would probably say yes
SW-User
I don't really get the question.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@SW-User Would you be willing to have and raise a baby for some guy who would pay you support generously each month? He would still see the child and be part of his/her life.
SW-User
"Some guy"? Of course not. @StevetheSleeve
Not everything can be bought, user.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@sspec Not everyone.
@StevetheSleeve Good
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@SW-User The guy and woman would need to reach agreement beforehand on the extent of his part in the child’s life. Why not be part of a family? That would be something he didn’t want for whatever reason. Like cocoon says, it’s dodging the hardest parts.
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@StevetheSleeve some fathers seem to be in the same house of the kid but it's as if they weren't there even being (part of the family)
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
bijouxbroussard · F