Seen Parents Suprised Their Kids Hate Them?

There are going to be a lot of lonely old people in nursing homes someday.

From very young til I was thrown out at 14 my mum told me she hated me,I was beaten for trivial things and locked in my room
My oldest sister got everything and used to bully me but it was always me who got hit for retaliation ..my life only started at 14 when my aunt took me down to her house
Now with my 3 kids im happy and secure and good friends round me
Now mum says I should be there to help her has shes getting older and less agile but I told her no chance
Last week for the first time in 2 years she saw her grandkids,my sisters been locked up and she wanted closure,I did it for the kids only but I can never forgive or forget what she did and said to me has a child

Like my parents.

They spent my entire childhood drinking, blowing money on bullshit instead of paying the bills, never invested in my education or development, criticized me at every opportunity, verbally and physically abused me, lied about me to other family members, etc.

And now they cry and wonder why I'm a "horrible daughter" and have nothing to do with them. 🙄

My sister said my father couldn't understand why I never called. Still the most horrible human being I have ever known!

yeah I can relate my mum sat back and allowed me to get abused it only stopped when I got taken away from home because I reported it she left him last year. My dad doesnt really support me in much and was pretty controlling during my teen years I dont know if he meant it or because he wanted to protect me maybe abit of both he was extremly mad when I wanted to move out at 18.

It does happen a lot

This happened with my step mom. I finally told her that I’d never seen us having a relationship in my adult life because of the things she allowed & how she treated me. I explained I only wanted a relationship if it was going to be one of boundaries, respect & love. I wouldn’t tolerate anymore manipulation or mistreatment. We are closer now than we ever have been. Some people are capable of change if they want it.