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Not sure if I should tell my parents that I have been researching things about sex

SW-User
It's not really their business. You're young and curious, just like they were at one point. Kids shouldn't have to tell their parents every single thing. That screws up the relationship REALLY fast. You should have your own private stuff just like they do.
SW-User
But if she wants to know more about the subject, she can always talk to her parents
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
I am surprised you need to research! Most people your age have had several years.. say 5-6 of sex education at school now.. so few don't know most of all there is to know.. depends on how good the education is..
I think most young people turn to the net for research now.. so i'd be surprised if your parents were that surprised.. Usual advice tho is be careful where you source information as online there is a LOT of misinformation..which can lead to unrealistic expectations on you and your partner..
I ASSUME you will first and foremost take precautions against Pregnancy and STDS
Someone should have talked to you about sex before now. If your parent's haven't, they're not doing their job right. Talk to them.
ruzgar · 22-25
If you have religious parents,don't...
Carver · 31-35, F
Yeah, I second that. If they're very religious or conservative then discussing that with them is never a good idea.
SW-User
you shouldn't be afraid to talk to your parents..
Carver · 31-35, F
They may very well appreciate that you open up about that and discuss it with them. If you're 13-15 years of age then that's usually the age when one starts becoming curious about sex, if it's not always on their minds already.
Unless you feel comfortable talking to your parents about your questions or concerns, say nothing. You're naturally curious. Parents don't need to hear or know everything.
SW-User
that makes sense...
Primnproper · 56-60, F
I think it depends on the research, if it's something you really need answers to and understanding then by all means chat to your mum, but if it's just being curious..nah!!
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Primnproper · 56-60, F
Their curiosity starts earlier these days...lol
Simplegirlstory · 31-35, F
You are within 15, clear your high school first
louisesoulstar · 26-30, F
13
Simplegirlstory · 31-35, F
Ya concerntrate in your study instead of sex
Louise, do not let people tell you that ignoring your thoughts and feelings is the best thing to do. It's not.
If [i]adults[/i] were any good at concentrating on [i]anything[/i] instead of sex, the world would be a very different place.
For some reason lots of adults expect teenagers to be able to do what they cannot. They want teenagers to still be like children, and they don't fully accept that you are going through hormonal changes.
With any luck your parents will be of the enlightened few.
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
Why would you talk to your parents about it? It should be private.
Curiousme · 56-60, M
You should ask them a few simple questions at first. See how that goes, if they are open, then ask them more!
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louisesoulstar · 26-30, F
I don't know, it's not something that ever gets talked about in my family so I have no idea how they will react
SW-User
Tell them so they can help you more on this sensitive subject

 
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