anoderod55 · 61-69, M
Sorry to hear this 😩 I believe the children when be the toughest thing 🙏. Happy you found a neighbor to talk with ❤🌹
anoderod55 · 61-69, M
@in10RjFox Yes , i got that . The children stay with dad 😩
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I am sorry for all of that it must have come as quite a shock when you first found out.
I don't think much of the men who would let their ex-wife couch hop, especially one who didn't leave by personal choice.
You are the mother of his children he should have given you a lot more respect.
I'm glad you have a neighbor who is looking out for you and I hope your new life becomes what you need it to be.
I don't think much of the men who would let their ex-wife couch hop, especially one who didn't leave by personal choice.
You are the mother of his children he should have given you a lot more respect.
I'm glad you have a neighbor who is looking out for you and I hope your new life becomes what you need it to be.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@AngelaR80 He must have been delusional requesting something like that
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JustAsking · 46-50, F
I’m so sorry to hear that. I really know how it feels. When my ex cheated on me, I made the decision right then to choose my peace of mind, and I’ve never looked back. I’m lucky my daughter stood by that decision too. It’s hard to put the feeling into words, but I want you to know that in time, it will get better. Stay strong, you’ll find your way through this and come out even stronger.
DIMaverick4 · 41-45, M
i hope you get what you are looking for .. and there is never too late to start anew. You have older kids so i hope you can find time for yourself anyways.. i am sure there is happiness for you too .. and not that far. Just try not to push for things to happen and be open for it .. my 2 cents.. all the best and lots of love!!
urbancowboy · M
You did come to the right place. Members here have varying issues where they feel comfortable to vent and to reach out for support. Maybe you will find something here that will interest you and grabs you and relates to you. Good luck and welcome to the site
BrandNewMan · M
Sorry to hear of what you have endured, but very relatable. Undergoing the divorce process now myself.
Some great people here, some far less .. be aware and careful.
Best of luck on your new journey
Some great people here, some far less .. be aware and careful.
Best of luck on your new journey
beermeplease · M
so very sorry you had to go through that and i hope you have a good relationship with your children. welcome to sw. i'm sure you'll meet some good people here to help you in your healing...you'll quickly make friends.
Adrift · 61-69, F
Wow thats pretty rough.
Well you can look at it this way,
Your single now and have the time to work on yourself.
You can go to the gym.
Maybe start taking a couple of classes to get a better job.
Rediscover yourself.
The new wife gets to stay home, take care of the cheating husband and babysit his kids while you are out having coffee with new friends.
At some point her life isn't going to be so peachy.
One the mistress becomes the wife, it opens up a position for a new girlfriend.
Well you can look at it this way,
Your single now and have the time to work on yourself.
You can go to the gym.
Maybe start taking a couple of classes to get a better job.
Rediscover yourself.
The new wife gets to stay home, take care of the cheating husband and babysit his kids while you are out having coffee with new friends.
At some point her life isn't going to be so peachy.
One the mistress becomes the wife, it opens up a position for a new girlfriend.
SlippingAway · 46-50, F
SteveTomms · 56-60, M
I'm very sorry you've had to go through that, still going through it. Wish you all of the very best and hope you get support on here!
in10RjFox · M
In most cases discoveries ruin lives. You could have closed one eye as if you didn't find anything unusual and prepared for it by remaining in the luxury. And now you are the one who got yourself thrown out of the house and made his life easier.
And starting a new life which is not going to be easy. Instead you could have remained in marriage and still could have come here to find affair partners.
And starting a new life which is not going to be easy. Instead you could have remained in marriage and still could have come here to find affair partners.
aginggracefully · 70-79, M
in10RjFox · M
@AngelaR80 you may not have before you found out.. but you may have after to keep the marriage and cornered him when he finds out about yours.
It's all in the mindset. You could have waited until he brought up the affair on his own.
Anyway it's the curse of monogamy which is against nature because nature never intended to lock people in marriage.. it's man's own Karma..
Anyway now that it's all over , you can live out a new life and can redeem your individuality which otherwise would have remained buried in marriage.
It's all in the mindset. You could have waited until he brought up the affair on his own.
Anyway it's the curse of monogamy which is against nature because nature never intended to lock people in marriage.. it's man's own Karma..
Anyway now that it's all over , you can live out a new life and can redeem your individuality which otherwise would have remained buried in marriage.
in10RjFox · M
@aginggracefully check your English..
I have actually made a sensitive comment but you may have found it Not sensible.
I have actually made a sensitive comment but you may have found it Not sensible.
romell · 51-55, M
The biggest step to a problem olis to recognise theirs a problem you did so then acted ..what's sad is your kids didn't support you .. hopefully you regroup n relive it's pointless to cry over spilt milk but live on..
BeJeweled · 61-69, F
I went thru a similar situation many years ago. He was an alcoholic and cheater. We had a little girl. We left him never to see him again and a few months later I met my future husband. Hang in there, it will get better and one day your kids will want to be with mom again. You made the right decision!🤗
poshnaturist · 51-55, M
Sorry to hear what you’ve been through.
Divorce is a testing time.
I’m sure you’ll come out the other side stronger.
Divorce is a testing time.
I’m sure you’ll come out the other side stronger.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
I am sorry to hear about this painful journey. I jope ypu find your peace.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Hello and welcome
I al sorry to hear about your divorce
You are better off without him
I hope you took him to the cleaners
I al sorry to hear about your divorce
You are better off without him
I hope you took him to the cleaners
aginggracefully · 70-79, M
I’m sorry to hear what you’re going through. I hope you get the support that you’re looking for.
BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M
Sounds like you've been through a lot. Best of luck to you 👍🏻
braveheart21 · 61-69, M
TheYawnArchive · 46-50, M
There's some good people here, hope you heal from your past. 😥
Pretzel · 70-79, M
Sorry for you pain
you're welcome here
you're welcome here
Strict4u · 56-60, M
Welcome here I hope you meet some good friends and I hope your days get brighter
Welcome
496sbc · 36-40, M
hey thats really sad. i feel bad for u
RohitKhanna · 41-45, M
My prayers and best wishes that you get back to normal routine
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Progress!
Ramrod · 46-50, M
WOW, look at all your responses, looks like you made the right decision by giving S.W. a try. lol
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Okay but did you get visitation for the kids?
AngelaR80 · 41-45, FNew
@updown2020 unrestricted access so no issues there. I was just gutted they chose to stay with him.
Jonjdw · 51-55, M
She told you to wise up. What the…, Hopefully things get better and welcome.
Ramrod · 46-50, M
So your new neighbour is here on S.W. how convenient.