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Cleancut · 56-60, M
@smileylovesgaming 12 sounds right to me. Once I hit 13 I felt ashamed still getting babysat and it only got worse with each passing year. One thing that bothered me a lot is most of my babysitters growing up were teenagers.. now here I was a teen and I still had babysitters.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
@Cleancut if mom ever left the house my sister was in charge of us
Cleancut · 56-60, M
@smileylovesgaming I was an only child. If I had an older sister I probably wouldn't have had babysitters when I was a teen.

It doesn’t really depend on how old you are Penny but on other things. Like how mature you are for example. And there may be other reasons why a babysitter makes sense, like if you have a bedtime for example, where a babysitter will be able to make you stick to it. How old are you?
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@KimberleyAnne How old are you now miss kim
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anderst · 46-50, M
@sarahxjayne I have a set bedtime too, but I need no babysitter able to make me stick to it?
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SW-User
For their first misbehaviour a hand spanking over knee. If the misbehaviour continues then it would be time for my stiff paddle
samanthabelle · 22-25, F
@SW-User wow.i would spank them all the time
samanthabelle · 22-25, F
@PunishedBecky97 hands over knee
Kimmyvivi · 26-30, F
When the parents/gardians say. After all the said teen lives under their roof.
samanthabelle · 22-25, F
before dating......if you are dating the babysitter....maybe you dont need one
Exhibiter100000 · 61-69, M
Excellent answer. I totally agree. @samanthabelle
samanthabelle · 22-25, F
@Exhibiter100000 or if she got you mixed up with her and her bf then you dont need one
Cleancut · 56-60, M
@samanthabelle As a teen I had babysitters I would have liked to date. They were pretty girls not much older than me. The problem is (other than the fact that my mom would never let me go out on a date to begin with, I had to stay home) is that my babysitters wouldn't have wanted to date me. They knew it was pathetic for someone my age to be babysat....they were professional enough not to say it but they had to be thinking it. A teenage boy getting babysat is no alpha male!
Cleancut · 56-60, M
A lot of you have mentioned maturity. That was my mom's excuse to leave me with babysitters through my teens. I say excuse because I wasn't immature (although I looked young for my age). She was strict and controlling over me and didn't want me to have freedom when she left the house.

By the time I reached my mid-teens new babysitters (who weren't much older than me) often asked my mom why someone my age needs a babysitter. They would often remark that when they were my age they were already babysitting. My mom always used the same line "I'm sure you were more mature than he is...he is not mature". She would even point at me sometimes and say "look at him". That was not only humiliating, I felt it gave the babysitter a wrong impression about me.

Another reason I think my mom pushed the immature thing so hard is she wanted the babysitters to be strict with me, not just hang out at the house and get paid. She gave them a list of chores for me to do, a bedtime sbe wanted strictly enforced etc. By making me seem like some incredibly immature boy she made it more natural for the sitters to assume the role of authority figures.

I have some people wonder since I was a teenager did I ever try to make romantic moves on my babysitters since they were just a few years older than me (one girl even went to my same high school, I was a Sophomore and she was a Senior). The answer is girls are not attracted to boys who need babysitters. I didn't even try.
Cleancut · 56-60, M
@bruno my mom picked my clothes and while not all of them were explicitly childish, she picked clothes that made me look young. I really looked young and I think it was more than the clothes. My mom treated me like a child so I still looked like a child. Even at age 19 a clerk at an airline ticket office asked my mom if I get the 12 and under child fare.

By the time I attended University I didn't have a bedtime but I did have a curfew. At age 21 I went out clubbing and broke my curfew. The girls I approached at the club were so mean to me! I was so nice and submissive it brought out the girls bitch shield to the highest level..they were verbally abusing me, humiliating me and rejecting the hell out of me. I didn't expect that so it shocked me. Then I came home and my mom was FURIOUS that I was out past my curfew. When my mom was screaming at me I couldn't help but notice those girls at the club had the same exact bitch spirit as my mom..wow were they similar. I thought to myself if those club girls could see my getting yelled at by my mom at age 21 they would both laugh and feel validated...they picked up on the fact that I was living like this...they could see right through me.
bruno · 70-79, M
@Cleancut 19 years old and looking 12 ? May be due to childish clothing you had for the trip ?
I am surprised you did not have a bedtime when you started college.....
Platoscave · F
@Cleancut your mom had a real problem with grown men I guess...so wrong this happened to you!
SW-User
My parents would say you're too old when you prove you don't need it anymore.
Johnbtexas · 46-50, M
As others have said, It depends on the teenager and if he or she needs it. I also think it depends on if its a large family where the oldest might be ok left alone but not with multiple younger siblings. Also it can differ if the parents are going to be gone later into the night or overnight. As a parent my preference is to have other parents, mostly church family, watch kids if need someone to watch (especially if we leaving overnight) and to repay the favor watching friends kids and sometimes teenagers in the situations. Teenagers today seem to think they are way older and should be trusted more than they shoudld be. Happy to chat or communicate by messenger with others if they want to.
Ladyryan · 51-55, F
I never had anyone baby sit for my kids, except during long hours/days I’d be away from home. But usually my children was left to do on their own when they reached nine yrs old. Like leave them three hours away because of work, or wait till I come home from work. And time gradually would increases whenever I see it fits.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@Ladyryan Didn't know you had kids sweet ladynryan. Sounds like you are a good mother to them
Ladyryan · 51-55, F
@bhatjc I have two children, one is 20yo and another is 16yo. Thank you for reading Bhatjc 😊
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@Ladyryan Your welcome. Is their father in their life.
SW-User
Call them a teen sitter. You'll feel slightly better.
jiamsc · M
@SW-User haha even most school age kids or even toddlers don't like being called babies as babysitter implies.
I still have a babysitter still also
MrsPeterEvans · 31-35, F
I had one at 16
bruno · 70-79, M
@MrsPeterEvans A baby-sitter at 16 ? Why not. Were you still considered as a small child ? Did she put you to bed, spank you ?
SW-User
I believe it’s more about how responsible you are. Age is just a number, if your parents believe you need a sitter to me that shows how much they care for you.
@SW-User thats what my parents say
Brenda · 61-69, F
the world changes I never had a babysitter from 13/14, I think it's still ok for a 14 year old to be left home alone
SW-User
Any older than 12 is kind of weird to me.
bruno · 70-79, M
it is not a question of age, but maturity.
An older teen, even young adult, may need a sitter
GirlSerendipity · 26-30, F
@bruno yes sir i guess . . . but at whatever age there will be a first time he/she will be on their own . . . so take a chance that first time and after that it wont be the 1st time anymore
bruno · 70-79, M
@GirlSerendipity It is the parents' or caretakers' decision to choose when this first time should happen. And it can be late.....
SW-User
@GirlSerendipity I agree but my parents don't
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wendymt · 41-45, F
when your kids are regularly sleeping with your sitter
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@wendymt That sounds like the sitter is having more fun with the kids then the parents
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lawsont65 · 56-60, M
I think that all depends on the child who needs a babysitter. Maturity , responsible , trustworthy ..... If a child / teen isn't any of those or a parent just doesn't trust them to be by themselves... then a babysitter is what is needed.
Platoscave · F
@lawsont65 Sometimes a kid gets a babysitter as a way to demoralize the kid....sometimes its a form of subtle abuse. Happened to me.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Depends on the maturity of the Teen.
Johnbtexas · 46-50, M
That is truly something that depends on the personality and responsibilities of the child and other factors such as what time of day it is and how long the parents will be away.
Exhibiter100000 · 61-69, M
I had babysitters for a long time but I can’t remember the exact age. It’s what my parents wanted.
jiamsc · M
Some young teens need it..i have found that out while siting kids but some don't..happyt to chit chat
lyle687276 · 70-79, M
Does your teen babysitter have the authority to give you a spanking?
I would say like 10 but I still get babysat to
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sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
depends on the factors.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
depends on the reason
dondon · M
No one is ever too old
newgirl · 56-60, F
12 is the typical age
bhatjc · 46-50, M
How old are you
benJohnson99 · 18-21, M

 
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