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My Uncle died

Tuesday morning mum woke me up telling me my Uncle Tom was in hospital his cancer had gotten worse. We went over to go see him it was horrible seeing him so weak and frail he had been ill for years but he always kept laughing and refused to let it drag him down, but there he was like a ghost of his past self. Throughout this week we visited him daily trying to keep him company and as comfortable as we could. He lost his wife and son before I was born, in a car accident so my dad his little brother, my mum, me and my siblings were his only family left. All my life he was there every Christmas birthday then as I got into playing football he was my biggest supporter yelling encouragement to me and abuse at the refs. Took me to Wolves matches when dad was unable to and was always a source of wisdom and advice.
"Be brave be fierce be you" was something he said to me when I was doubting myself.
Wednesday it was just me and him my dad had gone to the toilet he held my hand as I was sat there crying he said he was proud of the young woman I had grown into and it was ok to cry that people say to be strong but you don't have to all the time. Throughout Wednesday he grew weaker and weaker.
He passed away yesterday not before making us laugh one last time when he woke up seeing my family round his bed looking sad "what's with those looks? You'd think someones dying" then he started to go it was slow like his life was being drained from him slowly. My dad lost it he was sat next to the bed holding my uncles hand crying in a way I had never seen before. My uncle was just saying "it's ok bruv it's ok" then he was gone.
It hurts so bad losing him he meant so much to us and we will miss him.
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Don't forget that you gave him joy and someone to love and be loved by after he lost his family. That was a life saver for him. You are a good niece.
YoMomma ·
Sorry 😕 my grandma had cancer and it was hard to see her like that.. she was always so outgoing and vivacious ..

Sorry for your family's loss but if you believe in heaven maybe he is with his family now 🙂🥹 but it's tough to lose people anyway when they are so nice..
dimfok · 26-30, M
Hello. My condolences. The pain will take some time to soften, as you clearly loved him a lot. Keep him in your memories as the nice person he was and be proud of all your time together. The passing of a loved one is always a challenge, feel free to reach out if you need to vent or talk about it.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
I'm sorry for your loss. In time the pain will subside but don't rush it.
Death is an enemy for us...until we feel that it is a kindness because of how badly we feel.

I am glad he is at peace and sorry for your family's pain
benJohnson99 · 18-21, M
Lucy l am so sorry l lost my dad a few years back it hurts so much l think about him everyday so l know how you are feeling xx
BlackPetals · 18-21, F
Lucy, I am so sorry. I hope you're alright. PM me soon, okay
Jake966 · 56-60, M
My condolences , I lost my sister as I held her hand .
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
So sorry for your loss 🥀 he's not in any pain anymore, and his memory will always be with you ❤
smiler2012 · 61-69
@Wolvesgirl😣so sorry for your loss your uncle tom seemed to be a diamond for an uncle 😢
So sorry for your loss. Hang onto those good memories of him 🤗
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
Im so sorry to hear that 😞
Peter85 · 36-40, M
I’m so sorry
Angelboy · M
Im sorry for your loss
Alonenotlonely · 26-30
Im so sorry for your loss
ArtieKat · M
Deepest sympathy xx
Lilyb · 22-25, F
That's terrible! Cancer is horrible! Rest easy
TrunkZ · 56-60, M
🥺🥺 So sorry for your loss
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
So sorry for the loss of a much loved ,close family member 🤗🤗🤗
Sincerest condolences. 😔

 
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