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My former sister-in-law just moved into MY apartment building!

Of course...it's not MY building, but it does bring up some issues.

When I left the ex, I left completely. No contact with him or any of his family. I've even asked my son specifically to NOT discuss me, or my business with any of the ex's family, because he still sees them on the holidays.

But I simply can't be unfriendly. I always liked my former sister-in-law. She was one of those people who would only call me if she could use me in some way, but I am squishy, and simply couldn't bring myself to be rude to her.

At any rate...I fear that problems are looming in my future.
Friendlyperson · 26-30, F
Well... boundaries are necessary. Some vague camardarie is in order but nothing more.
Even when meeting outside, be busy and always in a hurry. I hope she will get the point and your relationship will be mutual greetings and no more.
4meAndyou · F
@Friendlyperson Thank you, my friend! You are SO kind! ♥♥♥
Friendlyperson · 26-30, F
@4meAndyou
I am re reading my words lol so many typos lol It is 03 AM and I am in the middle of the nightshift waiting for a patient lol. Thank you too for your always kind words and everlasting support. You are the kind soul, may God bless you. 🥰
4meAndyou · F
@Friendlyperson 🤗🤗🤗
chuck7882 · 61-69, M
You are going to have to set boundaries
4meAndyou · F
@Friendlyperson As long as she doesn't invite the ex over, things should be okay.

We exchanged phone numbers. She has had a total shoulder replacement after a bad fall. so I texted a lady I know who might be able to get her a house cleaner.
Friendlyperson · 26-30, F
@4meAndyou
Then she could get help from that lady afterwards, pretend not to know anyone in the area anymore. Lol.

Also, if the ex is invited, then yeah, home seems like a beautiful place to stay in and go out till the ex is no longer 🤣
4meAndyou · F
@Friendlyperson VERY true!
Royrogers · 61-69, M
You are wise to cut off all communication with your former in laws. Move on to a better life
4meAndyou · F
@Royrogers I have done so...but my previous life has now moved into my building!!!
Trouble trouble trouble
4meAndyou · F
@Royricky09 That is what I fear.
@4meAndyou just make a rule of not going to each other's place.
It won't stop once started
4meAndyou · F
@Royricky09 THAT goes without saying. But I DID offer my help in case she needs anything. I just can't seem to help myself.
Kstrong · 56-60, F
Boundaries are necessary, stand up for yourself and no is an acceptable answer
Pretend you have alzheimer's and don't know her.
4meAndyou · F
@Dignaga THAT shouldn't be too hard. I didn't even know her when I saw her until she told me her name...🤣🤣🤣
Thrust · 56-60, M
DanielsASJ · 36-40, M
This Christmas everything is going to be fine. Probably she has learnt. But proceed with caution.

 
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