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Baby Loss Awareness

How are you meant to carry on with life as normal when you feel a big part of you is missing :(
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
It's hard especially when you also have living children. I feel guilty all my children are not here and we can't be all together, what keeps me going is noing when my time is up we will be reunited again. It dont ever get easier you just learn to live with the pain. 💜
I’m truly sorry, i understand how you feel I’ve suffered the loss of a child myself… our circumstances might be different but my love is your love … keep going 🌸
Grief therapy can be very helpful, talking with a trained professional psychologist can help us learn to cope with the loss and pain.
Also, Search: "The 5 stages of grief", denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance are explained. ❤
I searched hard for Cicero's Hortensius after my God Mother died. She was much more of a mother to me than my mother ever was, and it shook me to the core.

I have had some luck in finding lost texts, but nothing came up, not even a single fragment that I could recognize as belonging to it.

In classical antiquity, it was the premier text on this subject. The loss of one's loved one, and the feeling of emptiness and despair. I spent a year lost.

I don't really have anwsers to these questions. There was a movie based on the philosopher Swedenborg's writings called "What Dreams May Come" that deal with this.

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in10RjFox · M
It's all determined by almighty fate and destiny.
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Purplemoon · 31-35, F
@in10RjFox No it's not.
in10RjFox · M
@Purplemoon then who ? Some don't carry on and some do carry on with life.

So who determines ?
SeaGlass · F
I don't know, but I know people should support and care for people who suffer the loss of their baby
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@Beautywithin Ridiculous advice is his specialty and he’s very good at it.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@NativePortlander1970 I don't often find myself agreeing with you, but I'm 100% on board with this.
calicuz · 56-60, M
You're not. You're allowed to take as much time as you need.
oldguy73 · 70-79, M
very simple either you get medical help see if it works, or learn to adjust for what is missing, which both usually don't work unless on massive druds, what you don't get is mosr every person alive has same problems, that is called LIFE
Purplemoon · 31-35, F
@oldguy73 Most people dont lose a child.
SW-User
What happened?

Babies are so innocent and beautiful. There is everything good, and nothing bad, to miss. I think carrying on with life is an almost impossible task when you lose a baby to death. It is cruel, and it is wrong. All you can do is try to live for your baby, for their memory, which you keep alive.
You don't... You find a new "normal" and stagger forward with that.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
You grieve. You mourn. You process. You heal.
@AthrillatheHunt You never fully heal
Sazzio · 31-35, M
Sorry to hear
496sbc · 36-40, M
SJones48 · 41-45, M
Just one day at a time. It never leaves you just learn how to hide it
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am so sorry for what you’re going through. I understand it. You need to take time to grieve 🩷.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
It's heart breaking
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
See, this is why we need to bring back mourning garb. Special clothing that you wear after a severe loss that tells everybody to just leave you the fuсk alone because you're not okay. Can we please bring that back?
My older brother and his wife lost about seven due to stillbirth and miscarriages, they still have a rough time dealing from their last one in 2007.

 
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