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DoubleRings · 51-55, F
I never had any. I have no regrets. I hear people complain about their kids so much. I work with kids so I don’t mind them, but I never really wanted my own. As a kid myself, I never got to explore life or do anything mostly bc we couldn’t afford it. We lived in a small house and it was gross and ugly. I put myself through school all at my expense. Now I make great money and can afford to do all the things I (and my family) only dreamed of. Anyway, I have a disabled sibling and I guess in a way, I get to express my nurturing side that way. Also bc I never had kids I got to care for my dying parents when it was their time without any other commitments to anyone else. They had kids very late so I lost them both in my 30s.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Have no interest in having kids or being a step mum either
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
@PaleandPolluted this is real. I’ve had a hard time with that role too. Although in hindsight I missed out on at least one good relatnsp bc I also felt the same way about stepmotherhood.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I have no interest in going through pregnancy.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
@CrazyMusicLover I feel this too.
BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M
I don't want kids of my own, but if something should happen to my sisters so they can't take care of their kids (current or future) I will take the kids in and raise them as best I can. And they will be loved.
Ducky · 31-35, F
I feel it might be a bit late for me to have kids at my age, but I have someone in my life now who I would have been open to having kids with in another life.
RopinTexan · 31-35, M
I want children. I just can’t seem to find anyone else crazy enough to have them with me.
tenente · 100+, M
don't want a family. don't want kids. don't want to be a father. makes finding gf more difficult. but i can't pretend its something i would want or tolerate. i've been alone ever since i can remember. i've never felt like i'm part of a family and i don't want to start a family. i'm a selfish and shallow person. i have room in my heart for me, and one other person, and that's it.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@tenente same here. Can barely function myself let alone looking after others.