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Do you have a good relationship with your parents?

I haven't spoke to my Dad in almost a year and my mother and I have a strained relationship always have. Not close with my sister or brother he's quite a bit younger than me 18 years to be exact. I feel so much like a loser because I have no close family but my son. I am just tired of being the one who always has to bend over backwards to have any sort of a relationship with them. I just want to be myself and I am too old to keep trying to please those who are never satisfied
val70 · 51-55
How about making some new friends? It's not always about the family then
@val70 true
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
I do with one of them. It is okay to cut off toxic people, even if they are family ❤️
Slade · 56-60, M
Luckily I did. As much as possible.

Of course I'd give ANYTHING to have them back 🤗
Slade · 56-60, M
I can tell you are in some pain.

I seriously wish you only the best🥰
Slade · 56-60, M
It sucks. But it sucks worse if you let them get away ☹️
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@slippingaway] 😣my dad i never sadly was six of one and half a dozen of the other really . he died in 2014 suddenly in hospital after having a stroke and breaking his hip and since that day i have been filled with regret and remorse in how i spoke to and treated him
Iwillwait · M
Sometimes were really close, other times we are not. The year's communication is up and down depending on our schedules and work loads
val70 · 51-55
@Iwillwait Stick in there, I'd advice
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
Nope. Pretty close to cutting them off completely.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Both deceased
smiler2012 · 56-60
@nedkelly 😣sorry that is the case ned
revenant · F
It changes over time. I recently got reacquainted with my brother which is a nice thing.
They moved back in with us just before lockdown and havent left. I doubt they will. I love them dearly. I've learned to understand my mum's outbursts and how it's a cultural/generational thing and can ignore it now.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Yea Mom is amazing and late Dad wasnt at all

 
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