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What would you do if no one loves you?

The title explains it all. What would you do if you had no friends and no family? How would you come to terms with that? How would you embrace that? Serious answers only please.
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LadyGrace · 70-79
I bet you're not ugly. People always tend to think that but they're really not. We're much too hard on ourselves. You know it's a wonderful thing to be your own best friend.
bushi2020 · 36-40, M
@LadyGrace You are amazing! You do not find many people as kind and as thoughtful or caring on the internet :). I thank you .
LadyGrace · 70-79
@bushi2020 And so are you! You just have to remember that. Do things that are nice for yourself and make you happy.
Carazaa · F
I would get close to God, who cares. Jesus understands. They persecuted him. He says "follow me!"
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
Um I don’t deal with this now but I have come to terms with this before

I directed my focus inward and became the best version of myself that I wanted to be. I turned out every one else’s opinion and searched for my own fulfillment
bushi2020 · 36-40, M
@SW-User I havent thats why I'm asking you
LadyGrace · 70-79
@bushi2020 That depends on you and how much work you want to put into yourself and learn to relax and just accept yourself as you are. But you don't have to be alone. If you don't want to be with family then find some really good friends and have fun.
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@SW-User YOU find it
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
Humans are social creatures and love and acceptance if a need for us. If I do not receive love and acceptance from those around me, my first inclination is to figure out if it is my problem or theirs. Is my behavior unacceptable for the group I am trying to fit into or are their expectations to much?

I am conservative, it is reasonable that the local progressives around me aren't going to be too happy with me. I can't or don't want to change my core beliefs, I need to find those who share my core values. If I am looking for love at the local dance club, a gaggle of 20 something women with energy to burn, a 60 year old pudgy bald guy isn't going to have much luck. I take a realistic look at myself and what I offer and what the other parties require, and if it doesn't match, I look somewhere else, or, I fix myself.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I am in that situation right now. What else can I do but keep living and working and adhering to my routine? It's lonely, dull, and if I let myself think about it too long, I'll get depressed. I just keep busy to avoid thinking about it.
self-discipline in accomplishing what you really have to do for yourself in this life. if you have that feeling.

everything else is irrelevant. a man is always alone. even if he is surrounded by a crowd of admirers.
Idk i have lots of family and so many friends.. I'm sorry you don't have people.. you could always get a pet (but only if you are going to take good care of it)
eyeno · M
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God loves me and thats all that matters ...! Which answers your question.
InHeaven · F
Friends and family don't automatically guarantee love, it's visa versa actually.
HannibalMontanimal · 26-30, M
Keep searching brother
There’s someone out there for everyone
This world is need based. Stop providing to your beloveds with the needful and See the outcome.
Stop getting up on time to prepare meals & observe long faces.
The list is endless. Fill for self.
So, loving self goes till grave. Emotional attachments are subjective. To each their own.

Having said that, still keep providing without expecting till your limits allow.
Struggle, that’s my worst fear
bushi2020 · 36-40, M
@BeefySenpie your not the only one
Magenta · F
Hmm idk, try making friends? Do you work?
Maybe try helping at a homeless shelter kitchen, or at a nursing home, or animal rescue. I would have animals to care for for sure. I already do, but i would have more.
bushi2020 · 36-40, M
@Magenta I work but alone... I like cats but I have a dog that will kill them.
Magenta · F
@bushi2020 Aaw.
I think getting out and mingling, go places, exercise, and find a hobby or activity you enjoy would help.
bushi2020 · 36-40, M
@Magenta I am ugly it makes it hard when you look scary to everyone.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I’d get a dog
bushi2020 · 36-40, M
@Jenny1234 Dog doesnt love me
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@bushi2020 dogs live most people unless their asses
perceptivei · 36-40, F
It would make me want to drink more. That's for sure. But, it doesn't matter how ugly or overweight you are. There's someone uglier and more overweight. You can find someone to talk to whether it's online or in person.
Torsten · 36-40, M
I am a loner in general. I think there would be a lot of freedom in that to go do as you please.
I very much love the people in my life and glad they can even tolerate me but if things were different, I would survive
btchstfu · F
i feel like at the end of the day im the only one who love myself the most and it all that matters. id say, always have low hope on how ppl would treat you. u gonna hurt less
Moonsofmars · 18-21, F
I don’t know. I guess I’d just try to build my own life and make friends and family for myself. It’s all you can do really, isn’t it
bushi2020 · 36-40, M
@Moonsofmars What if you cant make friends?
LadyGrace · 70-79
@bushi2020 You can do it. I believe in you. Just make up your mind you're going to do it and don't limit yourself and never underestimate yourself. Someone out there is looking for a friend just like you. Hundreds of people are starving for love and friendship.
SW-User
I'd complain about being alone while continuing to choose to be alone.
Learn to love myself first.
If all else fails. Take up a heroin habit.
Carazaa · F
@AwakeningConfession221122 No don't do that!🙂
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I honestly think I'd shut down.
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LadyGrace · 70-79
@bushi2020 No!! Suicide is never the answer. Don't ever even think of that. It's a good idea to get out of your own head and concentrate and focus on other things and other people. You will feel better especially if you help people.
perceptivei · 36-40, F
I would do my best to find friends and love.
Usually when I am heart broken I tend to go drinking.
SW-User
Self destruction. No man is an island.
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Dino11 · M
Love the one you’re with.
bushi2020 · 36-40, M
@Dino11 I am with no one

 
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