What would you do if no one loves you?
The title explains it all. What would you do if you had no friends and no family? How would you come to terms with that? How would you embrace that? Serious answers only please.
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Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
Humans are social creatures and love and acceptance if a need for us. If I do not receive love and acceptance from those around me, my first inclination is to figure out if it is my problem or theirs. Is my behavior unacceptable for the group I am trying to fit into or are their expectations to much?
I am conservative, it is reasonable that the local progressives around me aren't going to be too happy with me. I can't or don't want to change my core beliefs, I need to find those who share my core values. If I am looking for love at the local dance club, a gaggle of 20 something women with energy to burn, a 60 year old pudgy bald guy isn't going to have much luck. I take a realistic look at myself and what I offer and what the other parties require, and if it doesn't match, I look somewhere else, or, I fix myself.
I am conservative, it is reasonable that the local progressives around me aren't going to be too happy with me. I can't or don't want to change my core beliefs, I need to find those who share my core values. If I am looking for love at the local dance club, a gaggle of 20 something women with energy to burn, a 60 year old pudgy bald guy isn't going to have much luck. I take a realistic look at myself and what I offer and what the other parties require, and if it doesn't match, I look somewhere else, or, I fix myself.