How do i live with the fact both my parents dont give a crap if i live or die Neither of them...

SW-User

I'm sorry to read that you're struggling. With that kind of response from your mother, it sounds as if your parents are selfish toxic people. Sometimes, it's better for our mental health to accept a door that's been closed on us. Don't think about the past and the people who have chosen not to be there to support you. If you want to move forward, focus on yourself, your own needs, and the people in your life that do support you. Focus on the positives, ignore the negatives.

Thespis · M

Parent's aren't the only type of family. I'm not talking about aunts, uncles, or siblings. You can have family and loved ones that aren't related by blood at all. We certainly, as humans, have an urge to be close to our blood relatives, so it's difficult when we can't. However, it's better than a toxic relationship with them. I think you have to get by with the fact that there are people who care about you. Bring those friends closer and find your own kind of family where you feel the love and warmth.

InHeaven · F

I lived like that from the day I was born and most of my life. Just live and let it go 🤷‍♀️ Some people don’t understand what they need to do. They don’t know any better. Don’t be angry at them (I don’t know, if you are)

UnderLockDown · M

My mother was the same way, I haven't had contact with her in over 20 years. I honestly feel it was an improvement in my life. It is a hard pill to swallow though.

QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M

Ohh wow sorry your parents aren’t showing you love and support when you need them to be there for you 😣😣😣

Rhode57 · 56-60, M

So sorry I wish I could help but sadly I cant .

greymatter61 · 56-60, M

I am sorry to hear you are having trouble. As a parent, I find it difficult to believe that they don't care. They may believe its better for you in the long run if you work it out on your own. Or maybe their is something wrong with them.