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Sister is Still Best Friends After 60 Years

It's been a long, long time, but after just over 60 years when my sister left home, we've picked up where we left off all those years ago. We went our separate ways, married, had kids and moved to different parts of the country. Other than the occasional visit, family gathering or phone call, we lead pretty much separate lives.
I was widowed 11 years ago and she lost her husband about 6 years ago, and since then, we've got a lot closer. Over the past two years, we've started to appreciate spending more and more time together - she's a damn good cook and I'm still pretty handy at DIY! We took our first vacation together earlier this year as soon as covid restrictions allowed. I found it amazing that apart from our two eldest, our kids were horrified when we told them our plans. The older two just said ignore everyone, go for it and enjoy ourselves. Many of our friends have said pretty much the same.
RichLizzie · 36-40, F
I'm reading between the lines here, but it's no-one elses business what you and your sister get up to. You're obviously both mature adults, and so long as you both agree to it and no-one's getting hurt, just let your hair down, do whatever feels right, and enjoy yourselves.
At least two of your kids are supportive and I'm sure in time, the others will come to accept it. Both my parents are still alive, but in the same situation, I'd be more than happy for them to do what you two are doing. My Dad has three sisters and my Mum has an older brother.
DavidW · 70-79, M
@RichLizzie Thanks for your input Lizzie. We have three kids to win round - my youngest daughter who currently takes every opportunity to tell me how disgusting she thinks we are, and my sisters two youngest sons who, according to my sister, are gradually "coming round to it". So thanks for your support.
Ozdharma · 61-69, M
Nothing wrong with that my sister and I have been intimate.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@Ozdharma May your family love last for years
HubbyB · 70-79, M
Too many narrow minded people around David. We maybe old but we still need a bit of fun in our lives, and holidaying on your own is no fun. I hope you shared a room? It's a heck of a lot less expensive than paying for two singles. 😉
DavidW · 70-79, M
@HubbyB mortified. It was her idea to register as husband and wife to save embarrassment.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@DavidW that is so interesting. Did you have that relationship growing up?
DavidW · 70-79, M
@samueltyler2 In younger years, yes.
Being friends with one’s sibling is wonderful. But it sounds like some sickos here are encouraging incest. Sorry, that’s just disgusting.
DavidW · 70-79, M
@bijouxbroussard I think most understand.
SW-User
I wanted to heart this post but something is off there.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@SW-User in Judeo-Christian societies, this is incest and unaffected. But, that can be said to be related to the production of offspring. At their age, whatever give a them happiness should be accepted. Who are they hurting. At my age, I think differently that when I was more youthful.
nativespirit · 61-69, M
Enjoy yourselves and don't worry about what others say
dcsm42 · 70-79, M
It’s really nice that you both have rekindled the closeness you had at home. Enjoy your times together. :-) dc
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
My sister who is 10 yrs younger than me have the same type relationship...Best Friends.
We are very much alike and made a pact that if our spouses die...we will have one house and live together.
DavidW · 70-79, M
@PTCdresser57 We've discussed living together but not quite there yet. That's a big decision to make.
Just lost my most treasured brother. Use every minute you can get together. It is your time to enjoy all your precious moments. Don't listen to anyone.
DavidW · 70-79, M
@mondayschild2 So sorry for your loss, but we're doing just fine, thanks.
Justme264 · 70-79, M
Given what you both have been through... do what you feel... at ohr age I think we should be able to don't you?
dontbekoi · 36-40, F
Oh gosh, that sounds so nice.

I am really happy for you 😊
DavidW · 70-79, M
@dontbekoi Thank you!
bhatjc · 46-50, M
Have you two become lovers as well or just very good friends.
Fluffybull · F
That's nice ❤️
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
So sorry about your loss. I hope your kids can accept your new relationship.
Human1000 · M
How anyone could find your relationship with your sister objectionable is beyond my comprehension. If you were the same sex no one would blink an eye.
DavidW · 70-79, M
@Human1000 I agree!
Ben052003 · 18-21, M
I didn't even know you had a sister!
DavidW · 70-79, M
@Ben052003 Yes, but she doesn't live locally.

 
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