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Sister is Still Best Friends After 60 Years

It's been a long, long time, but after just over 60 years when my sister left home, we've picked up where we left off all those years ago. We went our separate ways, married, had kids and moved to different parts of the country. Other than the occasional visit, family gathering or phone call, we lead pretty much separate lives.
I was widowed 11 years ago and she lost her husband about 6 years ago, and since then, we've got a lot closer. Over the past two years, we've started to appreciate spending more and more time together - she's a damn good cook and I'm still pretty handy at DIY! We took our first vacation together earlier this year as soon as covid restrictions allowed. I found it amazing that apart from our two eldest, our kids were horrified when we told them our plans. The older two just said ignore everyone, go for it and enjoy ourselves. Many of our friends have said pretty much the same.
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RichLizzie · 36-40, F
I'm reading between the lines here, but it's no-one elses business what you and your sister get up to. You're obviously both mature adults, and so long as you both agree to it and no-one's getting hurt, just let your hair down, do whatever feels right, and enjoy yourselves.
At least two of your kids are supportive and I'm sure in time, the others will come to accept it. Both my parents are still alive, but in the same situation, I'd be more than happy for them to do what you two are doing. My Dad has three sisters and my Mum has an older brother.
DavidW · 70-79, M
@RichLizzie Thanks for your input Lizzie. We have three kids to win round - my youngest daughter who currently takes every opportunity to tell me how disgusting she thinks we are, and my sisters two youngest sons who, according to my sister, are gradually "coming round to it". So thanks for your support.