If someone really hurt you, would you want them back?

@Ferric67 Both.

@Rilyn deliberate, absolutely not.
Incidental hurt would be more of a trending threat of occurring, therefore I would be more prepared for it....meaning, it's probably not for me (since they are liable to do it again).
If it was totally on accident, then that could totally be forgiven....and you can make amends and get over it

@Ferric67 I tend to agree with this. I'm not willing to forgive or close an eye easily though either.