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Some say its sleep paralysis, i think not at all

I wrote about this on quora. Seems Im not alone. For a little over two years I had these weird dreams/ dream states idk. I knew as I was starting to fall asleep I would get a sensation in my head, like pins and needles when your foot falls asleep. Then I knew I was going to have " one of those dreams". I would become afraid and I always thought I was able to wake myself up...not so. And every dream I would end up talking to the same character ( wasnt a nice fella). At some point I would realize I was in fact asleep and needed to get myself out of the dream. Anybody else?
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ArishMell · 70-79, M
Oh. odd sensations when falling asleep are common, and some, such as the sensation of pressure, perhaps gave rise to beliefs in supposedly "supernatural" activity in the past.

I have very weird dreams indeed, but luckily most are harmless (a lot of them are very surreally distorted versions of work and another places I knew) but I do not believe in "interpreting" them. If you try doing that, or worse asking self-style interpreters, all you do is invent some idea about what they might have been "about".

Dreams are fleeting flights of fancy, that is all, but thought to be side-effects of the brain's memory department doing its own house-keeping (while we are asleep so not distracting it).
Wolfegrl1 · 51-55, F
@ArishMell I dont believe in dream interpretation in the way some might think of it. But Carl Jung had a psychological theory that proved to help me understand some of the weirdness in my normal dreaming.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@Wolfegrl1 It would certainly be interesting to know why dreams can cite real memories but in right daft ways.

A simple example of what I mean by the distortion was one of the few dreams I remember. At work I looked after facilities that included a big water-tank, and I dreamt I had returned from holiday to find in my absence the room had been turned into an open-plan office, and tank into an ornamental pond complete with water-lilies etc. I dreamt it while I really was on holiday!

Oddly, I have dreampt about ny work far more often after retiring than in my working life. I suppose it's from my mind trying to preserve the memories of colleagues I now see only very rarely, if ever.
Wolfegrl1 · 51-55, F
@ArishMell Definitely revolved around a really big change in your life. It is strange what people, places or things your mind uses to symbolize other things going on in your life or emotions you're having. I had to chuckle about the ornamental pond lol. Seems your mind was happy for the holiday!
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
I never associated the prickly pin feel feeling with it but you're absolutely right. I always feel that right before it happens. With me something black came from my bathroom,
even know picturing it its only a silhouette like a solid black mass, maybe a shadow figure and it has a tail. Im not picturing a demon though. It moves really fast and it jumped on my chest, and held me down, and i couldn't move. I just said the Lord's Prayer over and over as i tried to shake it off and wake myself up. My husband was there beside me one day when it happened i was screaming his name for him to wake me up but it only came out like a whisper even though i was yelling. Every other time it happened he was at work
Wolfegrl1 · 51-55, F
@AngelUnforgiven That sounds terrifying. Are you awake and seeing this thing but cant move? Or are you trying to wake yourself up?
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@Wolfegrl1 My bedroom is pitch dark i have blackout curtains but my neighbor behind me has a motion sensor and ever so often a light pops on outside my window and it illuminates my window a bit. And this is what happened. I was asleep and once it jumped on me i woke up and the light outside came on i opened me eyes and all i could see was the shape of it, it was solid but just black. Then that light outside went back off and it was pitch black again.
Wolfegrl1 · 51-55, F
@AngelUnforgiven Does your husband have the same issue? I only ask because mine had a similiar experience. His was only auditory though. I totally understand how frightening these experiences can be though. I got to a point that I was afraid to go to sleep.
FreddieUK · 70-79, M
I had a bad experience as a small child being tangled up in the bed sheet and blankets (older people will remember the days before duvets) and for many years, even into adulthood, I had nightmares of that recurring. The thing was that I knew I was dreaming and needed to wake up to stop the fear, but the sleep paralysis stopped me. It has happened with other experiences which have lodged in my head and resurfaced in unpleasant ways in sleep. Fortunately, that is very rare now.
Wolfegrl1 · 51-55, F
Oh, besides the dreams noted above, all of my other dreams interpretations were pretty on the mark using Carl Jung's theory. Its something that has really helped me I thought Id share. Give him a google.
4meAndyou · F
I DID suffer from sleep paralysis at one time. It is something most people grow out of. Sleep paralysis is when you are TRYING to wake up, and you can't.

During that period of NOT being able to wake up, you will probably dream that you are awake, out of bed, and doing something odd...like floating up above the bed...or floating down the hallway on the ceiling...or pulling yourself along the ceiling with your hands and looking in the bathroom mirror downstairs, to see if you can see yourself in the mirror...but there is nothing there.

Those are hallucinations. All people with sleep paralysis want to wake up so badly that they hallucinate in their sleep.
Tumbleweed · F
I've had a similar experience twice. The first times was really BAD, the second time I was better able to shake it off but not before it scared me. I believe it was an angry spirit. Mine wasn't a dream really, it was more of an experience, if that makes any sense at all.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
It is sleep paralysis. I describe it like "trying to tear off two velcro strips from each other". But I have it when trying to wake up from the paralysis, not when falling asleep.
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
Sleep paralysis has nothing to do with actual sleep in a lot of cases. It's other things but I will not discuss here
Wolfegrl1 · 51-55, F
@KingofBones1 Oh I agree.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
Its the beginnings of getting out of your body, or as they call it, astral projection. A kind of half way out sensation. If you can stay conscious you can get out fully and take a look around.
we will talk on this later, as for now I going to bed ,I will p,m, you ,
have you ever stayed over night in a hospital,
Wolfegrl1 · 51-55, F
@jackrabbit10 Yes. Only before.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@jackrabbit10 I have spent two separate spells of a few days each in hospital. "Sleeping" in that situation is an optional extra!
@Wolfegrl1 i did have dreams similar to yours, it was after the hospital visit,
lostlissa · 36-40, F
I have some odd dreams sometimes but nothing even close to that
Wolfegrl1 · 51-55, F
@lostlissa Thats a good thing. I pretty much just have my ptsd dreams anymore. Geeze...I miss normal sleep. Lol
pancakeslam · 46-50, M
I was getting snatched at 🌃 and it was just a matter of issuing psychic threats and fighting the overwhelming paralysis inflicted. eventually it stopped completely.
pancakeslam · 46-50, M
@Wolfegrl1 Yes I had overwhelming paralysis. Did you have any alien UFO imagery? Owls? Feelings of missing time? Or did it seem part of a dream?
Wolfegrl1 · 51-55, F
@pancakeslam No alien/ UFO images. No owls. Just a person, character who mimicked, ultimately, my husband. I never believed I was still asleep. I always thought I was able to wake up and was eventually realized I wasnt. Oddly enough, the time was always correct from dream to wakefulness. How did you overcome your paralysis? Did you have auditory and visual in your paralysis?
pancakeslam · 46-50, M
@Wolfegrl1 I visualized a UFO and experienced missing time. I was fully awake for one of the experiences and I could move my eyes. I was eventually physically able to shake them off. They were occuring but , less intensely, and closer to the morning.
No.

Was there always the same sequence and pace?

Was the talk always the same, or did the talk on night x incorporate all the other nights?
@Wolfegrl1 Wow...very odd.
Wolfegrl1 · 51-55, F
@SomeMichGuy Too odd for my liking. So glad I dont have them anymore.
@Wolfegrl1 Agreed!
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
You should be able to control.your breathing and break out of it that way.

 
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