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Why everyone loses their shit when woman dates a younger guy?

Society has conditioned us to believe it's only acceptable in reverse
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
I don't see the issue here, if both are happy whats the problem? same for when an older guys dates a younger woman. 😇
@SarithBorn Perfect answer.
jackieash · 26-30
I thought people only lose their shit when someone has a same sex relationship. People who knew me for years stopped talking to me since I started going out with my gf. I know...their loss... but why is it people are judged because they don't do what "everyone else" (or to put it another way, a few like minded idiots) considers "normal"? To these morons I say: "Just stop being so fucking nosey and gobby and mind your own business"
jackieash · 26-30
@PoetryNEmotion Let me tell you this; my home town is not known for its liberal attitudes. There is no "put it in their faces" if you know what's good for you. I have found tolerance is only there when you follow what is perceived to be "the normal way". I have been threatened by homophobes on several occasions. And nosey bastards demanding to know why I have no boyfriend/kids, etc. I moved to another area for work purposes and found the level of acceptance much better.
@jackieash I find small town people mostly have small minds. And intolerance. And racism is rampant. Larger cities attract more people. Less connections in general and so anonymity and differences are better tolerated. It is like no one bothers and no one cares. Homophobes as well as other negatives exist everywhere.
jackieash · 26-30
@PoetryNEmotion They do, but in larger cities, they're easier to either get away from in the first place or ignore. I moved from a small "city" to a larger one for work but my experiences made my decision easier than it should have been.
jackson55 · M
I don’t see that it should make a difference.
Younger men lack savoir faire. They are inexperienced in bed. They do not like to cuddle overnight. Nice hard bodies, but older men take their time to pleasure women. And the can talk. Some read books! Much younger men need to live life and get experience.
Convivial · 26-30, F
You dare break the mold?

Shame on you!
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
People like to act like they're going out of their own way to speak up about some sort of oppression or wrongdoing but the truth is they just love freaking out about stuff because it gets them attention.
Dshhh · M
just jealous if it wernt for
"Older lady with younger guy"
my life would NOT have been as happy
life lessons LOL
bluesnacks · F
As long as the younger person has a fully developed brain (25 years and above) it's OK.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
Idc I just don’t know how they stand it 😆
@AlchemyFox Yes, the number of times the Earth has orbited the Sun makes such a big difference in how people live their lives, doesn't it? 🤪 😂
i 100 support them. lesbians should do the same!!!!
My baes have traditionally been older.

It's not like I would mind dating someone younger but Ehh.... Younger can also make a lot of really bad choices that women as they get older tend to stop making.
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Allelse · 36-40, M
I dunno, as long as both parties are legal and consenting I don't care. Hell, a brother and a sister could go at it for all I care.
Why ?
Because people have nothing else to going on in their lifes, so they choose to judge others for their choices.
Are you suggesting that this event is "enema"-tic as well as potentially being enigmatic? 😉
MarieUK · 36-40, F
People are much more accepting of Older woman younger man, Harry Styles makes a habit of it
496sbc · 36-40, M
It's normal to have gal date younger men. Do t listen to others who say different
Morrigan · F
I dont have an opinion other than, it seems like too much hard work to me
Is it really still that way? I thought attitudes on that had shifted.
@robingoodfellow No. It is far more acceptable for older, secure ugly men to date young, trophy women.
As long as both are over 18 who cares about their ages
exchrist · 31-35
Not sure women I think get jealous and men are just offended easily
Gilgamesh · 31-35, M
Around here not really as long as the person is over 18.
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
How much younger than you is he?
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Is this happening to you?
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
I haven't ever but I'm not everyone.
Teslin · M
Nothing wrong with that 🤷‍♂️
DADDYDEAN · 61-69, M
Petty jealousy and envy
She’s a boss babe.
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
They're jealous
I didn't know they did.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
🤷🏻‍♀️ No idea
Alex51 · 61-69, M
Not every one
Fungirlvape · 61-69, F
Chickie · F
I don't know what kind of people you meet but almost everyone encourages an older woman to have sex with a much younger man like Britney Spears and Cher but vice versa is seen as wrong because for some people sick minds they think it's pedophilia or the girl is just a gold digger slut with daddy issues. I believe that people should mind their damn business everyone keeps saying "as long as they're both adults" until it's something they're hungry up over like a 20 something woman dating a 40 something year old man.
Who's everyone? And how much younger is younger?
LordShadowfire · 46-50
I don't get that, either. Unless the guy is underage, whose business is it?
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MethDozer · M
I see people yalk about this online but never once actually seen this issue play out in real life. To be quite honest I always see high fives to both parties involved when this happens.
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