Mamapolo2016 · F
I THINK I would take a long step backward and let them work it out.
Only once did I find myself potentially in that place. I made a very good friend online, a man. He was married. He talked a lot about his wife and family.
I was going to be in their vicinity, and he suggested lunch. I told him to bring his wife. She was someone I would have liked to have as a friend,
I excused myself to use the bathroom and she came too. Throughout our encounter, she had been cordial and relaxed and communicative.But there was … something, caution maybe, and I didn’t blame her. He WAS a prize.
In the restroom I told her that after I met him, it became my goal to find someone who loved me as much as he loved her.
In his first message after that lunch, he asked, “What did you SAY to her?”
“Why do you ask?”
“It’s like a second honeymoon.”
I just told him the conversations between women in bathrooms were ethically confidential.
If I love my friend, the last thing I want to do is cause disruption in his happiness. If he and I wanted each other, we’d be together. It’s not my place to insinuate myself into their relationship. If it works for them, it works for me.
Only once did I find myself potentially in that place. I made a very good friend online, a man. He was married. He talked a lot about his wife and family.
I was going to be in their vicinity, and he suggested lunch. I told him to bring his wife. She was someone I would have liked to have as a friend,
I excused myself to use the bathroom and she came too. Throughout our encounter, she had been cordial and relaxed and communicative.But there was … something, caution maybe, and I didn’t blame her. He WAS a prize.
In the restroom I told her that after I met him, it became my goal to find someone who loved me as much as he loved her.
In his first message after that lunch, he asked, “What did you SAY to her?”
“Why do you ask?”
“It’s like a second honeymoon.”
I just told him the conversations between women in bathrooms were ethically confidential.
If I love my friend, the last thing I want to do is cause disruption in his happiness. If he and I wanted each other, we’d be together. It’s not my place to insinuate myself into their relationship. If it works for them, it works for me.
CenterPiece · 36-40, F
It happens to me all the time
Younameit · F
Like your friend being jealous of you?
Reject · 31-35, M
I would hope that me and my friend couldn’t care less because someone else’s insecurity is not our task. I take care of myself. They take care of their self and ideally, anyone else in our lives can also take care of their self. The only people who can’t are children and the elderly.
MarineBob · 61-69, M
Show them how insecure I am
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
caccoon · 36-40
Like how do you mean?
boklenholley7 · F