What would you do if you somehow ended up being a topic of insecurity in a friends relationship?

Happens often, even now. My conscience is clear but let them go if thats what they choose

It happens to me all the time

Has happened before many times. My best friend is male 😒 it's kind of a given at this point that it's going to happen. We've been friends 16 years.

Like your friend being jealous of you?

This happened to me in the worst possible way so I just walked away before I lost any dignity .

I would hope that me and my friend couldn’t care less because someone else’s insecurity is not our task. I take care of myself. They take care of their self and ideally, anyone else in our lives can also take care of their self. The only people who can’t are children and the elderly.

Show them how insecure I am

I'd stay away and let them find another conduit to channel the instability of their relationship.

Like how do you mean?

Roll my eyes. That's like feeling unsafe in a house I didn't lock the doors in while there's a rando walking down the street minding their own business. The insecurity is coming from the inside not from any action I'm taking.