Have you ever been in a situation where you found your friend's date or partner attractive??

Yep!

Never but found my dates friend attractive and asked for her number

Not really but my friends always found my dates super hot

It happened a lot in college at our fraternity parties, but I always had the prettiest date so I just held onto her.

Not really ...usually once someone talks that's a tell tale sign

It happened once in college. I accidentally hooked up with my best friends girl. He's not my best friend anymore,lol.

I have never been in such a situation.


That P.S part caught me off guard.

Honestly I thought you would have atleast one friend.

Yes, it's happened. One of my friends was dating this very attractive older guy. I loved when we all hung out because then I could admire him from a distance and try not to get all weird and flirty when he talked to me. But I never pursued anything or overstepped any boundaries. I just enjoyed the view. 😌

Because they are with someone that I know I couldn't look at them like that. My mind doesn't work that way. They would seem like family to me because they are with my people.

Sooo....went on a date as a 3rd wheel...my friend said he really didn't like the girl...long story short, I hit it off with her, and got her number....but I was off at school. When I returned, my friend promptly told me....they were together...🤷‍♂

I do not have friends so if there's mutual attraction then it could happen but i would not initiate

I have but did nothing.

Nope. None of my business all I care

I made a friend through another friend years ago and when I met her husband he and I were intensely compatible. I'd never cross that line and it was innocent when we were funny and silly and creative together all the time, but I know it bothered his wife. There were times I caught him staring at me. There's no way he didn't feel what I felt, it was strong.

I ended up losing two friends because I didn't want to disrespect her. She was an awesome lady. So I just stopped hanging out.

I can find people attractive and not need to act on it or have feelings towards them

Been there, fantasized that. 😏

Nothing ever became of it because it was only in my head.

I think noticing is normal but entertaining it is a choice. I’d keep my distance and stay in my lane.
Not worth risking a friendship. Ever.

Of course.
Nothing.