What would you do if someone acts this way? At work, eats breakfast and lunch alone. even he...

Bonby · 61-69, M

Sounds like an introvert ,and why so many feel they must do something other then accept him is beyond me.fir introverts people suck the wind out of their sails,they loose their energy while extraverts get their energy from yapping with others introverts gain theirs when alone. Nothing wrong with either it just the way it is and we need to understand and accept it that's all. When and if he wants things any different he will just dont count on it.he is probably very content. Now there is a wide range from being either an introvert or an extravert so let people be who they are .

calicuz · 56-60, M

He's a loner, so leave him alone. Not all of us are social butterflies, and I'm am more like this person you describe. I don't go to work to socialize or make friends, I go to work to get the job done. I also don't make friends because I might be your boss one day and have to fire you, so there should be nothing personal about that decision.

Ducky · 31-35, F

Nothing and leave them be? Obviously they’re not big on sociality and prefer to keep to themselves. Nothing wrong with that. I’m more or less the same way. He’s shown he can be decent and friendly whenever he does interact with others, so it’s not like it’s hurting anyone. Why would anyone need to do anything?

Cassieeee · 31-35, F

Not everyone is social. But I would invite him ofc, ask him to sit with me at lunch if we had lunch at the same time, and maybe just try asking questions - not everyone is good at starting conversations. But if that didn't work, then I would just let him do his own thing and still be friendly..