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Treating others like they treat you.. Sometimes feels bad.

Some relationships are very challenging. 😐
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Yes they are and that's when you set your boundaries and stick with them. We're not made to be people pleasers. People need to understand that sometimes we need to do what we need to do, we're doing our very best, and we're not deliberately ignoring them or whatever. We have our own priorities and to be true to ourselves, we must stick to our priorities and boundaries, no matter what, unless it's a real emergency. We shouldn't have to stress over these things and when we love ourselves enough to take control of everything, that always feels real good. If people don't understand, that's not your personal problem. It's theirs and they will have to adjust, not us. Our job is to stay away from the toxic people! Not let them control us.
If you don't stick to your boundaries, preferences, and priorities, you'll just stay stuck until you do. Make a good plan and then stick with it. People will respect you for it. We're not made to be people pleasers, abused, owned, or operated. We must love and respect ourselves enough to stand up for ourselves.
We should “treat others as we would have them do unto us”. Not always easy and we all fail at times… People (most) can be the most selfish of all of God’s creation, and they act like the whole world revolves around them, their wants and their plans. Never even considering others… 😞
@Unefilletrescurieuse and if you are too nice they don't appreciate you
@Lovebird I know for sure that is true. However that is the teaching of Jesus… and that’s his will for us anyway. Treat them well but don’t be a doormat. 🙂❤

Luke 6:31
King James Version
31 And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise.
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
Yes, they are. I have come to learn if a person treats me wrongly/badly then they do not deserve my future time, and I won't give them any future time or chances to be rude or bad towards me.
DarthInvader · 36-40, M
You don't have to stay if you aren't treated well.
DarthInvader · 36-40, M
@Lovebird Yes that happens but responding to bad treatment rarely if ever fixes anything
@DarthInvader true. For now, I feel like I need some space. Because that person comes and goes from my life randomly so now I just doing the same to them.
DarthInvader · 36-40, M
@Lovebird oh then I understand. Yes if someone cuts themselves from you, you respond in kind.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
I think you have that expression wrong.
@Nitedoc one gets tired I guess...
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
@Lovebird I understand, I feel it too!
Tumbleweed · F
@Nitedoc I tend to do the same.
Ferric67 · M
Relationships is about compromise and learning to work with others
@Ferric67 if that doesn't work
Ferric67 · M
@Lovebird it takes two for it to work
When it doesn't, and change for the better isn't an option, then loses must be cut....and we move on looking for a situation that harbors growth
Eliminate toxicity
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@Darksideinthenight2 yes I dislike that they do that, but I still care about them, but its only fair to distance myself a bit. I don't do it as a revenge, I do it because I don't feel like talking as nothing today.
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@Darksideinthenight2 so why do you post that 🫠
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