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Guy asks me

If I'm drop dead gorgeous .

I reply:

I'm of average looks

Guy stops messaging.

🤷‍♀

If you didn't want to know, why did you ask? You could have just happily kept your fantasy.
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Well how the preposition matters a lot.. did he say you are drop dead gorgeous, or -if- you are? Catch my meaning? I know you have a curious mind, and there will be men who say -if you are gorgeous- and I'm not sure what they ever expect from that response? 🙅‍♀ Why not just say I have no emotional clue?
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@awildsheepschase he asked me to tell him a bit about myself. I asked what did they want to know?

It was interspersed with a few other questions and was literally, "are you drop dead goregous?"

Personally, I find it telling. If someone is concerned with how beautiful I am that it is in a list of 4 questions, I can guarantee, I'm not the person for you. Lol not because I'm ugly, but because they are looking at all the wrong features and I'm tired of being graded by how I look and not me as a whole person.
@FoxyQueen Yes, the whole person. I admit I am having fun using naughty language with an app I know is using as AI bots to express naughty language. I am giving the naughty language back, it's mostly a writing exercise for me. It skips beauty often, and I know baits you upon fantasy. I find it humorous but I can write so many words that way -if I want-.

On another hand, I think we all know, just how interspersed (timing), even if are real, up your game and be more genuine and expressive. I have no idea how you look, but somewhere I see you have a mind who wants to be heard.

(Now let me flirt with AI and reject, lol)
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@awildsheepschase You know,I don't have a huge problem using AI as a parasocial relationship to help learn how to talk and flirt with someone. At least then it serves a purpose. Lol
Nick1 · 61-69, M
Those guys will find out looks can change with time. It can go either way.
Inner beauty improves with time.
Ferric67 · M
He’s missing out on making a positive connection

His loss
BamPow · 51-55, M
Meanwhile him:
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@BamPow Awwww!!! Don't do Chunk dirty like that!
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
This is your own fault. The flashing red warning sign and sirens went off the moment he asked that question and you missed it. To be overly polite, the man is a loser. First, because he is shallow in the extreme. He has a chance to get to know the real you and he blows it in that manner..Your physical appearance is not even secondary in importance to your other features, like character, experience and depth of emotion.. Any male worth investing in. (And lets be real here, women usually do invest more in a man than the other way around initially at least) understands that every woman is beautiful.. Its just that with some, you dont notice it immediately..😷
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@whowasthatmaskedman oh, I didn't miss it. Believe me, his user name pointed his intentions out crystal clear. He truly has no interest in me as a person, much like the person below who asked me if I have nice tits. I'm going to assume it was a joke, but, it was a poor one.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@FoxyQueen It speaks to your tolerance that you didnt block him on the spot..😷
The fact that he wanted to know that would turn me off from further conversations.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@bijouxbroussard If I wanted people to know what I looked like, I would have a pic of me they could see.
One person's "average" is another's drop dead gorgeous. All in the eyes of the beholder.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@MaBalzEsHari Didn't seem to be enough to get a reply back
BillyMack · 46-50, M
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@BillyMack I know, right?!

Don't ask what you don't want to know! Lol
BillyMack · 46-50, M
@FoxyQueen that’s why I only ask for random things like meatloaf recipes and late 90s music lyric memorization quizzes.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
And quite often these guys are no oil paintings themselves.
@FoxyQueen I’ve been binge watching a channel called Catfished on YouTube. It really is astounding how delusional people are about their own looks.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@OlderSometimesWiser Tbh, my "average" comment was based on what my bestie told me and he has always been honest with me.
@FoxyQueen I’m sure you’re quite lovely and the right man will be smart enough to appreciate all the right qualities in you. 🙂
Oh yeah he sounds like a real winner.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@Nunlover That view is for the privileged who have proven their worth. I *am* a Goddess, after all.
@FoxyQueen let me be worthy 😝
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@Nunlover well get to work then!
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
Did that really happen? WTH?
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F

 
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