When you notice people you cared become distant from you, what do you do? And what are your thoughts?

Usually, I reach out a couple of times just be sure that they didn't just miss a phone call or email. That's happened. I'm talking about long-time, once close friends.

If I don't hear back from them, I just accept that they aren't my friend anymore. I wonder why...what changed. I stop 'reaching out', even though I think of them and wonder how they are. It hurts.

So becoming distant in my head means they need space. If I notice it's gone on a while I will reach out.
If I don't get a response even if it's just a friendly message or I need some time. I kind of just let people be.
I can honestly say it hurts to lose friends and relationships, but I learned that you can't force anything or anyone to stay.

I definitely think about where things went wrong, but overtime than questioning subsides.

Distance yourself also, and give as good as you get is my advice to you. Of course follow people up with a call or email etc. but leave it up to them to respond and don't bother with them if they're too wrapped up in their own worlds to make the effort. Some people do change their associations over time, but true friends will always be there for you.

You said "".

So I take it as they didn't, it's just me who cared.

What else can I do, they have made their choice. If It's make them happy I'll let them be because I cared.

It's happened to me several times so the way I look at it, if I'm not worth an explanation, then they're not worth my time in questioning it. So I completely ignore them and look right past them like they don't even exist.

People change and move on. I appreciate the season we were in and that’s it.

I'll tell you what I don't do... I don't beg and I don't chase.

I don't even have much of a habit of telling people that I want them in my life, either.

I know they'll walk out sooner or later... so I try to keep myself at a respectable distance so it doesn't hurt when they do.

I silently moved on from his life , I feel that myself can't be really forever for any one so one day i have to move that's what i have in my mind always since i get connected with her /him

I just move on at this point. I've had so many people come and go in my life that it just feels routine at this point.

Give them the space they need. We all need it from time to time.

I do nothing. I think they got tired of my indifference and that it's always them reaching out first.

Mirror them tbh

Examine your behaviour

Well either they are just busy or they are avoiding you because of a secret dislike

Reciprocate the treatment and put up guards

i write their name(s) on my deathnote