If a woman was having a female related problem, and sought advice from female family members, should it make the husband feel left out?

@AngelUnforgiven and you would hope he would respect that are doing so.
He's informed about what is going on but also very powerless/unknowledgeable at least from a first hand perspective.

@BamPow Could or could not be, yes.

@AngelUnforgiven in this particular situation it wasn't that I couldn't talk to my partner. I needed immediate help and beyond his mother's negative experience and his trustee friend Google he couldn't advise me on anything regarding the post partum stage of the pregnancy.

His sulking was because he felt helpless, but instead of accepting that this wasn't an area he could help me in he went against my wishes which was "b milk first then formula to top up" so when he had baby in the other room and I was resting instead of waking me up like agreed he gave formula.

@AngelUnforgiven I'll respond to both comments.
So in this scenario I had just given birth and was experiencing immediate pain and needed advice straightaway as my milk was coming in.
My aunt is a midwife and my mum was here to help the first 2 weeks.
My mum consulted my aunt X midwife what to do and how to manage the pain.
My partner was in the living room, as this was coming through over text due to us needing our hands free when I had the opportunity I shared the texts with my partner.
But he couldn't advise me on this subject especially as his mum didn't breast feed any of her children.
The only thing he could contribute was the fact that the midwife she spoke to made her feel like crap for not producing enough milk.

As a consequence of this scenario he became irrate because I was sharing information and he wasn't in the room whilst this was all occured, he claimed the messages had no context and he didn't understand why my aunt was advising certain things.

He later didn't help with my desire to breastfeed and would make bottled formula instead of waking me up to nurse the baby so my supply reduced significantly.

@Mellowgirl much better.

@samueltyler2 in this instance this was the case. Males wasn't excluded just included after advise was had. Unfortunately this didn't sit well with him

@Mellowgirl really, that is wild. my dermatologist said something that surprised me, because the usual thinking is opposite. we were discussing the fact that he really never examines the genital areas, and I wondered if the patient admits to going to a nude beach he would, or are the serious skin cancers unlikely to occur there, he was freezing off sone precancerous growths from my hand and back. He said that if a man spots something there, he comes in immediately, and women go to GYNs who examine that area. He proceeded to tell me of a woman whose melanoma, the most serious and life threatening skin cancers, died of disseminated melanoma and at autopsy was found to have the primary between her buttocks. I said, please examine me thoroughly!