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Would you feel alarmed?

Few months ago My mom (a rageful, narcissist violent psychopath) said a remark about a news murder. She said " If I murdered you, I'd never get away with it". It really freaked me out because I'd never think about that, whatsoever. She was attuning to if an average Joe were to kill, they wouldn't get away with it. But still it was Jarring, given how awful she's been to me, violent etc.

Earlier today, we were watching a cooking show and the chef had a very large knife, chopping veggies. She goes, "Wow what I could do with that knife." Then paused and added, " throw it at someone's face on a target". But my sister said she added that in to lighten it. That she meant something else. It really alarmed me. How would you feel?
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Levenrack · 46-50, M
Well, given the fact that (as you stated above) she's physically violent, a psychopath and I will assume mentally abusive as well. Are not able to break away, or distance yourself in any manner? I don't care if she's your mum, or identical twin (identical hand twin too) time to curb her, or like @Achelois said. Set boundaries. Do whatever you can to get her out of your life or distanced, till you feel safe!!

Or are you just exaggerating? I only seen a couple posts of yours, so I can't tell what you're asking or need here.

Should you pay heed to her comments, and be mindful of her behavior? Hell yeah you should... you already answered your own question, by describing what she's done already in your relationship with her.

Start with the boundaries thing, be ready to move on....quickly. please. (Also, before you start with excuses and saying I don't know what full story... she sounds just like my stepmother. Who was mentally and physically abusive. Good Luck hun. 🙏
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Levenrack There's no boundary settings she's sadistic.. unfortunately. She doesn't care in any way or shape my boundaries I've attempted over the years. She's on the biggest ego trip in this world. She's a tyrant and mentally torture you whenever possible.i just need to keep doing therapy so I can get out of her life for good. Thanks..safety is important I agree 🌻
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