I wouldnt sign it, that is no friend.

Next time you see her turn your back on her and act like she doesn't even exist. If she ever says something to you. Say I don't like people who use other people so so I chose to " leave you alone" and then just walk away

I do find her bringing up your ex out of the blue like that strange. As for the email, whoops I didn`t get it. *delete*

Dont sign it and see what happens. If she stays talking to you then you will know

People get good an manipulating others to get what they want. It's too bad her friendliness isn't more than a show to get something she wants from you. Fortunately, there are lots of other people you can be friendly with.

Don't fill out the form. If they ask why, just say that circumstances have changed, not for the good, or bad, just changed and you just want to remain neutral.

Well tricky. On one hand she didn't behave nicely towards you. On another hand, fostering is kind.
Your pick. I'd be confused.

Lol…… I’d send in a lack of character reference.

I would just avoid from now on, she sounds like a head case.

would you think of sending a note to her for explanation of her reqts?

That is so very openly disingenuous...

Yeah what a tool

Wow.

there's a lot of weird people out there