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My neighbour and friend stopped talking to me more than a year ago

She would blank me in the street, or literally turn her back on me if she saw me outside the house. I had no idea why. No fight had occurred, no disagreement, nothing.

She suddenly started talking to me again the other day, saying that she didn't like my ex and that's why she had chosen to "leave me alone". I thought this was really odd. There had never been disagreements between my ex and her that I knew of.

When we were friends she had asked me for a character reference because she wanted to foster. I filled it in and sent it off. This morning I got an email from the agency asking me to update my form and countersign.

So basically she is only pretending to be friendly with me again because there is something she needs from me. The bare assed cheek of some people amazes me. 😮‍💨
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being · 36-40, F
Well tricky. On one hand she didn't behave nicely towards you. On another hand, fostering is kind.
Your pick. I'd be confused.
People get good an manipulating others to get what they want. It's too bad her friendliness isn't more than a show to get something she wants from you. Fortunately, there are lots of other people you can be friendly with.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I do find her bringing up your ex out of the blue like that strange. As for the email, whoops I didn`t get it. *delete*
JackBoston · 46-50, M
Yeah that’s not cool at all. I had a similar friend who would only call to “catch up” so they can ask if I’d be a reference for them.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
Next time you see her turn your back on her and act like she doesn't even exist. If she ever says something to you. Say I don't like people who use other people so so I chose to " leave you alone" and then just walk away
Teslin · M
Don't fill out the form. If they ask why, just say that circumstances have changed, not for the good, or bad, just changed and you just want to remain neutral.
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
I wouldnt sign it, that is no friend.
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WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@Kuronekko yes 🙌🏻
KA9ha · 31-35, M
would you think of sending a note to her for explanation of her reqts?
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@KA9ha I don't think I'm interested at this point. You don't just blank people like that and suddenly start talking again without consequences.
KA9ha · 31-35, M
@Kuronekko i realize what you say as i am the same... I would never look her way again..
KA9ha · 31-35, M
@KA9ha aaaahh right
Dont sign it and see what happens. If she stays talking to you then you will know
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@nevergiveup Oh I am not signing it.
Lol…… I’d send in a lack of character reference.
YoMomma ·
Yeah what a tool
Adrift · 61-69, F
I would just avoid from now on, she sounds like a head case.
That is so very openly disingenuous...
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@SomeMichGuy yeah its shocking
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
there's a lot of weird people out there
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