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If i just suddenly stop messaging him. Is it true itll make him miss me? I really hate that doing that type of thing

Matt85 · 36-40, M
It could. If it were me, I'd probably take it as a sign to stop courting. I don't like to bother women too much.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
So you want to manipulate him into feeling the way you want him to feel? You want to control his actions through emotionally manipulating him? Would you want to be with someone like that? What if it works? What will you want to manipulate him to do next? Say he loves you? The problem with this kind of behavior is that eventually if he does fall in love with you you'll always wonder if he really feels that way or if you manipulated him into saying it. If this is what you want to do,play mind games with the people you love then good luck. You're better than this,I know it's hard but if you want him then you have to act in ways that will lead to as healthy a relationship as possible.

Playing games in a relationship is a one way ticket to misery.
MysteryGirl · 22-25, F
@PinkMoon Actually im not wanting to manipulate at all, everyone else in my life is telling me to do this. And i just cant. So i finally decided to ask people here their opinions on the matter.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
@MysteryGirl In that case you have a good intuition, trust it.
mooncrest02 · 31-35, F
Suddenly stop? Sounds like you communicate regularly why do you want him to miss you? If he talks to you a lot then he already likes you dont torture him. Haha
MysteryGirl · 22-25, F
@mooncrest02 he asked me to stop loving him, that i deserve better. The past three days have been hard.
mooncrest02 · 31-35, F
@MysteryGirl ohh thats different. No if you stopped messaging him then that might just be good for both of you..
Hi :) I may i ask you something? Im looking for opinions :) but i dont want to ask it here as a replay that anyone can see coz some people might make fun of me. Would appreciate it if youll send me a message so i can replay you with my question (coz for some reason i can't message first). Thanx :)
Game playing is never the correct route to take.
MysteryGirl · 22-25, F
@OlderSometimesWiser thats what i was saying. But everyone keeps swearing by it
@MysteryGirl Sounds like you’re surrounded by some very immature people. Don’t make your decisions based on what EVERYONE says. Base them on what YOU believe is the right thing to do.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
He also might just forget. As they say, out of sight, out of mind.
JustMorty · 46-50, M
If you hate it don’t do it. Listen to your gut and values
Anything can happen.
@LifeIsShort Hi :) I may i ask you something? Im looking for opinions :) but i dont want to ask it here as a replay that anyone can see coz some people might make fun of me. Would appreciate it if youll send me a message so i can replay you with my question (coz for some reason i can't message first). Thanx :)
@someonefromsomewhere1 stop spamming man.
Didn't we already talk.
RedBaron · M
How would any of us know?

 
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