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Would you send a card to an ex friend?

My good friend for many years just got in a terrible car crash a few days ago. She is now out of the hospital. We have not spoken in 4 years now, b/c she would manipulate me, and I didn't feel she was a true friend anymore. I would listen to her for hours, support her etc. But I just couldn't be treated like I'm a fool or manipulated to get her way anymore. BUT, we did have many years of friendship prior to that. (since High school..). We did many things together, I attended many of her house parties etc. I did send her a postive message on FB about how I hope she heals quickly and was so glad it wasn't worse. Many were writing she could have died, b/c it was pretty serious, the damage/accident. Do I also send a card too? We were good friends many years. But I do not want to continue our friendship. I guess I just know in the PAST I would def. send flowers or card too, in addition to the FB message. But I"m not sure if I should now. Is the message enough?
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mooncrest02 · 31-35, F
Id say no, not if you dont want to be her friend again. You can always pray or wish well to someone without them knowing though, that always makes me feel better so I wont reach out.