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Heavenlywarrior · 36-40, M
Not having the balls to take certain risks when I was younger .. so now I live in the moment and take risks . Still smart about it but I don’t let fear or insecurity stop me . We only have a certain time to experience this era and body then we move on to the next one
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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I regret not trying to get in a college abroad in my early twenties. Even if I'm not sure if it's truly a regret because I still remember how much of a mess I were then and I'm not sure if I would make it anyway. I had tons of anxiety, was anemic, had undiagnosed autoimmune disease and felt drained and physically weak all the time. Yet...I wish I would have left this city then.
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JonUK31 · 36-40, M
@KatyO83 I tend to think you should only regret mistakes that you should have seen at the time. Marriage isn't a mistake you could see at the time, presumably you were happy/hopeful at the time. It just looks like a bad decision with the full benefit of hindsight.
Couple of years back heard an after dinner speech from a very successful retired footballer. Cracking speech then he invited questions. One guy said what are your regrets in football? He spoke about the trophies his team had won then the trophies they could have won but didn't how the losses still hurt him and how he still replays the matches they lost in his mind.
Then he said every single day I turned up for work as a professional footballer I gave 100% effort. I wanted different results but I regret nothing because of my 100% effort every single day. That's a good way of looking at regret, or lack of regret.
Couple of years back heard an after dinner speech from a very successful retired footballer. Cracking speech then he invited questions. One guy said what are your regrets in football? He spoke about the trophies his team had won then the trophies they could have won but didn't how the losses still hurt him and how he still replays the matches they lost in his mind.
Then he said every single day I turned up for work as a professional footballer I gave 100% effort. I wanted different results but I regret nothing because of my 100% effort every single day. That's a good way of looking at regret, or lack of regret.
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smiler2012 · 56-60
{@littletinks] 🤔when you sit down and think about it possibly many but my personal biggest regret was the way i treated my father years before his demise. it was six of one and half a doxen of the other but i am not make excuses after his death in the cold light of day i hated myself the way i treatedhim and will regret this until the day i join him will alway scar
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Oster1 · M
Not having a family, of my own. 😔
Leaving Oregon 26 years ago
