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What would you do if..

If everytime you and your partner fought, drains you. And it keeps on happening like a loop. The fighting never stops. And it makes you upset, depressed and feeling lonely. What would you do? Are you going to stick with him, what are you gonna do?
Tarantulella · 36-40, T
first thing is to get to the root of the problem and nip it at the bud.. why cause yourself to get upset and depressed ? Talk to each other,, if that don't work then you go your separate ways..
Veronique · 26-30, F
@Tarantulella You see, I dont know.. If i talk to him, he seems not to understand what i am talking about. The situation would roll up until i get frustrated and hurt myself but thank you, I'll take a note from your advice 😊
Tarantulella · 36-40, T
@Veronique he knows you are upset then and playing dumb..,, explain to him this is why I am upset and explain your reasons.. guys can be very hard headed and naive on purpose,,, it's that macho syndrome that makes them single
Veronique · 26-30, F
@Tarantulella Hahahaha 😁 the macho syndrome, it's the first time I've learned about that. I will, thank you so much, but for the mean time.. To avoid a lot of aches, I'll put a space for us.. I mean, we have a kid so.. I'm doing this for my kid 😊thank you
jennypenny · 70-79, F
I must confess my husband and I have had plenty of rows over the years but we always made it up and forgave each other.
Veronique · 26-30, F
@jennypenny I never knew how challenging getting into a relationship is..
KaiserSolze · 46-50, F
I'm in a similar situation. Been in relationship for nearly 2 years. The last 3 weeks roughly has been anything I say or do is wrong, causes an argument.

On Sunday just gone I couldn't take any more and I went to sleep - basically, that's a long story made short.

My view is that if arguments happen like this and on Sunday it wasn't an argument because I sat there in silence to see what'd happen and he carried on all on his own. My view is something is going on with him at the moment but I don't know what it is 100%

If someone is suddenly angry all the time for any reason without pause there must be a reason that I don't know about. Especially when he says it has nothing to do with me and he's sorry. I can't take it because it's draining and upsetting so I generally avoid him at the moment.

I'm waiting a while to see what happens, what's wrong or if it passes. I haven't put a wait time on this yet but to be constantly like this would be unbearable.
MasterLee · 56-60, M
I never fight with my partners
SW-User
@MasterLee she doesn't understand that you're a Master 🤭
Veronique · 26-30, F
@SW-User Hahaha I really dont, sorry 😅😅
SW-User
@Veronique lol its ok I could tell by your comments 😂
ArianaRose25 · 26-30
Talk it out and come to an agreement
ArianaRose25 · 26-30
@Veronique theres no upper hand, it's just trouble processing what's happening. It's difficult but you'll get through it :)
Veronique · 26-30, F
@ArianaRose25 I hope so, 😊 thanks
ArianaRose25 · 26-30
@Veronique anytime 😁

 
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