What would you do if..

If everytime you and your partner fought, drains you. And it keeps on happening like a loop. The fighting never stops. And it makes you upset, depressed and feeling lonely. What would you do? Are you going to stick with him, what are you gonna do?

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Tarantulella · 36-40, T

first thing is to get to the root of the problem and nip it at the bud.. why cause yourself to get upset and depressed ? Talk to each other,, if that don't work then you go your separate ways..

jennypenny · 70-79, F

The other thing to do is to get a good counsellor to try and sort matters out between you . If you really love each other then try that before any drastic separation . @Tarantulella

Veronique · 26-30, F

@Tarantulella You see, I dont know.. If i talk to him, he seems not to understand what i am talking about. The situation would roll up until i get frustrated and hurt myself but thank you, I'll take a note from your advice 😊

Tarantulella · 36-40, T

@Veronique he knows you are upset then and playing dumb..,, explain to him this is why I am upset and explain your reasons.. guys can be very hard headed and naive on purpose,,, it's that macho syndrome that makes them single

Veronique · 26-30, F

@Tarantulella Hahahaha 😁 the macho syndrome, it's the first time I've learned about that. I will, thank you so much, but for the mean time.. To avoid a lot of aches, I'll put a space for us.. I mean, we have a kid so.. I'm doing this for my kid 😊thank you