What would you do if..

If everytime you and your partner fought, drains you. And it keeps on happening like a loop. The fighting never stops. And it makes you upset, depressed and feeling lonely. What would you do? Are you going to stick with him, what are you gonna do?

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KaiserSolze · 46-50, F

I'm in a similar situation. Been in relationship for nearly 2 years. The last 3 weeks roughly has been anything I say or do is wrong, causes an argument.

On Sunday just gone I couldn't take any more and I went to sleep - basically, that's a long story made short.

My view is that if arguments happen like this and on Sunday it wasn't an argument because I sat there in silence to see what'd happen and he carried on all on his own. My view is something is going on with him at the moment but I don't know what it is 100%

If someone is suddenly angry all the time for any reason without pause there must be a reason that I don't know about. Especially when he says it has nothing to do with me and he's sorry. I can't take it because it's draining and upsetting so I generally avoid him at the moment.

I'm waiting a while to see what happens, what's wrong or if it passes. I haven't put a wait time on this yet but to be constantly like this would be unbearable.