Not trying to put myself down. But shit got me thinking

Why on earth would he wanna be with me knowing that I have 2 kids both from different dudes, I’m immature, irresponsible, childish, broken, mentally ill, not taking life seriously and a whole sea of other things I don’t wanna mention because I’m not tryna make myself cry this morning again. But then he’s just this great dude who has his own apartment, who has a college degree, a nice car, and a stable career working a ton doing good for himself. Why would he wanna mess that up by dating me? Because I just feel like I’m just gonna hold him back.

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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F Best Comment

Your mindset is what determines how much you can change in your life. You can’t change your past but you can focus on things that are changeable. Stop putting yourself down. We all are like balls of clay ready to be made into pottery.

4meAndyou · F

@cherokeepatti Beautiful answer.

BlueVeins · 22-25

Maybe he wants to have a whole family 🥺

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

@BlueVeins i don’t know what he’s plotting but whatever it is, life is too short for me to care anymore. I’ve been hurt enough to the point I expect it, it’s my normal. I know I sound crazy but I’m willing to settle for that than to be single.

SW-User

Maybe because he loves you 🙂

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

@SW-User I love him too 😭😭

4meAndyou · F

If you are all of those things, and he still likes you, then obviously he sees a great deal that you do not.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@4meAndyou I think there is a sweetness with this young woman and that’s something that we don’t find everyday with people. Obviously this young man values some quality in her that not everyone possesses.

4meAndyou · F

@cherokeepatti And SHE can only see her own faults.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@4meAndyou I wonder if she has a good friend if she would do that to her friend? Needs to talk to self as though she is her own best friend.

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