Not trying to put myself down. But shit got me thinking

Why on earth would he wanna be with me knowing that I have 2 kids both from different dudes, I’m immature, irresponsible, childish, broken, mentally ill, not taking life seriously and a whole sea of other things I don’t wanna mention because I’m not tryna make myself cry this morning again. But then he’s just this great dude who has his own apartment, who has a college degree, a nice car, and a stable career working a ton doing good for himself. Why would he wanna mess that up by dating me? Because I just feel like I’m just gonna hold him back.

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4meAndyou · F

If you are all of those things, and he still likes you, then obviously he sees a great deal that you do not.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@4meAndyou I think there is a sweetness with this young woman and that’s something that we don’t find everyday with people. Obviously this young man values some quality in her that not everyone possesses.

4meAndyou · F

@cherokeepatti And SHE can only see her own faults.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@4meAndyou I wonder if she has a good friend if she would do that to her friend? Needs to talk to self as though she is her own best friend.