It’s not something you should do just because or because you feel obligated to or because you feel as if it’s expected for any reason. It’s really not something that should be viewed as a necessity when deciding to be with someone forever. You can do all that without marriage.
WoodyAq · M
You live longer, but you spend a lot of that extra time praying for death...
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Clairessa09 · 31-35
@WoodyAq Yeah i understand. Its like u sunken too deep to look for hope anymore. A life coach once told me list 15 things that you gratful for everyday..and you can also do that in your relationship. List 15 things about the other person that you love. What made you fall in love with her the first time you saw her. She may have changed now due to raising a child,stress or depression but that girl is still there.
WoodyAq · M
@Clairessa09 I'll give it a shot...
Clairessa09 · 31-35
@WoodyAq do that..take her out to her favourite restaurant. Let her talk about everything she been through and really listen to her and understand.You married this woman and you said you going to love and protect her. Dont let her down. What did she do wrong? Did she cheat on you? What went wrong?
She probably hurting just as much as you are. Ive seen divorces and they are messy and the person who gets dirvorced very rarely finds their way from what ive seen.
Also try visualisation. Imagine how you want your relationship to be,write it down. It will happen
She probably hurting just as much as you are. Ive seen divorces and they are messy and the person who gets dirvorced very rarely finds their way from what ive seen.
Also try visualisation. Imagine how you want your relationship to be,write it down. It will happen
Brianthesnail · 56-60, M
If you're asking yourself that question, then don't

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You won't know until you're into it for 20 years.
NCCindy · 36-40, F
For me, it has been. I can't speak for others.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
Glad it’s working out for some peeps here that I know
NCCindy · 36-40, F
@Ambroseguy80 🤗
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Rambler · 61-69, M
That entirely depends on you and who you marry
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Yes, and the third time really is a charm
SweetMae · 70-79, F
It's not for everyone.

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getting married is a highly individual thing.
worth what, though? loss of freedom, individuality, some other wonderful thing?
anyway, it's not worth it for me.
worth what, though? loss of freedom, individuality, some other wonderful thing?
anyway, it's not worth it for me.
chrissykisses · 26-30, F
It reaaaaaaaaaally depends on the guy. I have heard some horror stories. Too many people think getting married or having babies will solve problems in a relationship.
Not really. It just legal documentation of a relationship.
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dondon · M
@Milkchocolate Why is it? You get nothing in return
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MasterDvdC · 70-79, M
With the right person, DEFINITELY!!!
bijouxbroussard · F
If you’re going to have children, I think it is. Also for shared benefits like healthcare.
caccoon · 36-40
If you don't have any reasons TO, then I'd say no.
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ViciDraco · 41-45, M
I don't think there is one answer to suit everyone.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
It is with the right person.