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psirider · 46-50, M
discovered with the age of 5, realized its effect on me with about 12years .. the 1st time when a ride on a very low pressured bike ended with a climax. Its still turns me on.
A second thing is my huge belly..I love it. I know its absolutely unhealthy but I really love to see and touch it or to be touched or watch it jiggling heavily.
A second thing is my huge belly..I love it. I know its absolutely unhealthy but I really love to see and touch it or to be touched or watch it jiggling heavily.
LeopoldBloom · M
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LeopoldBloom · M
@Wghtlvr See if this makes sense. A man who is attracted to "normal" women isn't going to be more attracted because a woman is skinny. But when I see a very fat woman, it really turns me on. The other day I saw this lady at the supermarket who was around 5 foot two at the most, and at least 550 pounds. It was amazing. Seeing her literally made me happy to be alive. A man who is only attracted to Sports Illustrated swimsuit types isn't going to have that experience.
Wghtlvr · M
@SW-User Well...I'm from Ep.
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@Wghtlvr No, I'm just stating stuff I posted there would not go over well on here is all
Wghtlvr · M
@SW-User I understand. I've had a harder time connecting on here.
LeopoldBloom · M
Yes, at age 7, but I've refined and expanded it since then.
I was once at a management training class, and the trainer asked when we knew our sexual orientation, and when I said "7," people thought I was nuts. But at that age I knew I was straight and also knew what kind of female I was attracted to.
I was once at a management training class, and the trainer asked when we knew our sexual orientation, and when I said "7," people thought I was nuts. But at that age I knew I was straight and also knew what kind of female I was attracted to.
TheThinker · 56-60, M
@LeopoldBloom Yup, I knew my sexuality & kink at age 6 or 7 as well; like you, I've found that quite a few people's heads explode when you tell them that. It just doesn't compute with them that you could have those feelings before puberty.
However from chatting to like-minded souls over the years it seems that this particular age isn't that unusual for those of us that are kinky.
I'm intrigued though, what was the purpose behind a management trainer asking that question? How did it fit in with what was being discussed, what point was being proved?
However from chatting to like-minded souls over the years it seems that this particular age isn't that unusual for those of us that are kinky.
I'm intrigued though, what was the purpose behind a management trainer asking that question? How did it fit in with what was being discussed, what point was being proved?
LeopoldBloom · M
@TheThinker You know, I don’t remember. Come to think of it, it was a little out of context.
Of course, I didn’t share my kink or any other information.
Of course, I didn’t share my kink or any other information.
Max27 · 31-35, M
i have been aware of my special interest and attraction to spanking and discipline since i was a young boy. I remember the day my best neighborhood friend in those days (a girl named Leah) her mom would inform me regularly about times she would get spanked by her father. I would spank her butt sometimes when she was ahead of me going upstairs to my room to play. she has always had a big butt which i was aware of in elementary school days. i have followed the spanking community for close to twenty years now. first time i actually masturbated successfully when i was a child was to a Kailee Robenson spanking clip.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
That all depends on what you are talking about, so many people talk about having a fetish but really only refer to things that they happen to like or find to be turn ons. A real fetish is more than that actually. But to answer your question the earliest I remember is about 13. A fetish is actually a sub category of paraphilia and they are life long.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
@Wghtlvr In that case mine does not really fit since I was using the word the way it is used in clinical psychology as opposed to common usage. Everyone has a turn on of one kind or another maybe 4% have some kind of paraphilia which covers a wide range of behaviors some just embarrassing some harmful. Fetish is a sub category of paraphilia. In people who develop a paraphilic based fetish it happens kind of in the background without you really even realizing it then awakens with your sexuality around puberty so to answer your question what opened my eyes at 13, nothing. By then it was already there I just did not know it till then. I wrote a story about it if your interested it is a very strange phenomenon https://similarworlds.com/2449251-I-Am-Facinated-By-Human-Behavior/428934-What-causes-all-these-fetishes-It-makes-no-sense
Justlookin · 51-55, M
LeopoldBloom · M
@Justlookin The name for the fetish where a man gets off on displaying his wife or girlfriend to other men is called "candaulism."
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silkandlace · 46-50, M
I think I've pinpointed it