When did it begin?

If you have a fetish, special interest or attraction, do know when it began? Were you aware of it your whole life? Can you pinpoint a time when it began? Or, was it always there but something happened later to cause you to realize it?

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LeopoldBloom · M

I knew that I was attracted to fat girls when I was 7 years old.

This is why I have no patience with religious bigots who say that being gay is a "choice." No one chooses what they're attracted to.

Wghtlvr · M

@LeopoldBloom I couldn't agree more! I've had a lifelong attraction to fat girls as well. It wasn't a choice; it's just how I'm "wired".

LeopoldBloom · M

@Wghtlvr See if this makes sense. A man who is attracted to "normal" women isn't going to be more attracted because a woman is skinny. But when I see a very fat woman, it really turns me on. The other day I saw this lady at the supermarket who was around 5 foot two at the most, and at least 550 pounds. It was amazing. Seeing her literally made me happy to be alive. A man who is only attracted to Sports Illustrated swimsuit types isn't going to have that experience.

Wghtlvr · M

@LeopoldBloom My friend, you are "preaching to the choir"! LOL!! Big women are glorious!

LeopoldBloom · M

@Wghtlvr I'm very lucky to be married to a beautiful fat woman. I sometimes look at my wife and can't believe a human being could be as beautiful as she is.

Is it bad that I wish I had slept with more fat women before I got married?