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Maintenance discipline

Are you convinced that hard and regular maintenance discipline is good for the whole family ?
ArishMell · 70-79, M
He asks above a drawing of a cat-o'-nine-tails.

"Good" for the sadistic one's ego and satisfaction, perhaps...
ArtieKat · M
I firmly believe in discipline but so-called "maintenance discipline" doesn't make sense at all. Familiarity breeds contempt in my opinion.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@ArtieKat:

I think it is also itself contempt, by the bully for the victim.
StefanoHopkins · 51-55, M
Sometimes it's an intimate and helpful thing to be spanked for small infractions. Like when you say you're sorry for an angry outburst, or something minor like that. The feeling of surrender is a wonderful experience, and to surrender for a small thing brings out the love between you both.

So....it may seem like a maintenance spanking, but there always those little things that you need to pay for, also. I always think that the absolute most intimate way, is for it to be two way. When you both can surrender to each other, it really purifies your relationship.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@StefanoHopkins:

That reads like consensual spanking between adults. Fine, I am for that; but there is no excuse for spankings for the sheer hell of it, of children, and "maintaining" nothing but cruelty.
karinaal · 70-79, F
No - I strongly believe in firm and consistent discipline but not in maintenance discipline.
No. I'm an adult I don't need disiplined like an 8 year old.
@karinaal: Okay.
rv101010 · 61-69, M
Pinkrainbowkisses : is it a question of age ? or more a question of obedience and submissivity ?
margret1980 · 41-45, F
@rv101010 Obedience and submissivity comes naturally with cheerful obedience at any age. But i doubt that submissivity can be enforced with maintenance discipline.
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IloveLucy · 22-25, F
@Carrie123abc 6 hour church?
Suzieq · 56-60, F
Discipline has to be maintained otherwise it loses its effectiveness
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@Suzieq:

You know my pro- views on erotic & therapeutic spanking between adults-only, but I regard regular "punishments" for nothing as NOT "discipline" but domestic abuse.
rv101010 · 61-69, M
interesting to read so clear opinions
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rv101010 · 61-69, M
@SweetDesiree strange....
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ArishMell · 70-79, M
@SweetDesiree
Indeed - but discipline and punishment are not the same and punishment does not have to be physical. RV101010 enjoys beating people - with whips too if his avatar is a guide.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
NO! So-called "maintenance spankings" are good for no-one except the bully giving them. They are either just sadism (in its true sense) masquerading as "discipline"; or show resentment, even hatred, of the children.

I like consensual, adults-only spanking but that sort of behaviour is disgusting. It is cruelty, and there is no excuse for cruelty.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@polyandrym66:

I'd never heard of "maintenance" spankings [beatings with weapons] until on EP; and when I did discover what it meant, I was horrified. Still am.

You know I like adults-only spanking fun, but I do not like cruelty.
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
@ArishMell: I don't even like pain, but many do, and I want to please them..
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@polyandrym66:

If it's consensual I can't & don't object.
enigma666 · 36-40, F

 
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