wokester · M
Ha, yes. My back hurt from carrying the conversation.

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Yes it happens. That’s when you know it’s time to give them the cold shoulder, which surprisingly makes them interested
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Well, we have to consider something else, as well. One can have quite a few different people to talk to on here, as there are so many here, and then you kind of get behind and sometimes cannot keep up cuz you've got to keep up with work that needs to be done at home. You want to, but sometimes you fall behind, not meaning to. I wish I could spend a lot more time with my friends on here, but I would get nothing done. I certainly don't mean to be slack. I try very hard to keep up but sometimes I can't.
latinbutterfly · F
@LadyGrace I know exactly what you mean. I'm too busy myself to really spend a lot of time on here.
@latinbutterfly Thank you for understanding. I've been really busy these days, organizing my place. That takes awhile. A lot of things need to go, and they are really nice things, so I give them to people.
latinbutterfly · F
@LadyGrace I am wife, a mom of two teenage boys, and I also work full time...so there you go 😁.
CookieCrumbs · F
Yes, it happens. They could be busy or have a million reasons why they seem uninterested at that time. But I wouldn’t bother them again.
Keepitsimple · 56-60, F
No. I don’t reach out to people first and they really have to interest me if they contact me.
There are as many reasons why chemistry fails to materialize as there are fish in the ocean.....
What I usually advise when I hear statements such as the OP's is rather than totally writing off someone.... keep them in your friendzone.
Because they will have a circle of friends where you might find someone more to your liking.... OR.... they may eventually develop chemistry (it happens)....
What I usually advise when I hear statements such as the OP's is rather than totally writing off someone.... keep them in your friendzone.
Because they will have a circle of friends where you might find someone more to your liking.... OR.... they may eventually develop chemistry (it happens)....
latinbutterfly · F
@Threepio Yeah, that's a good idea 🤷🏻♀️.
summersong · F
Happens all the time. Best to cut losses and move on.
latinbutterfly · F
@summersong Yep, No point in wasting your time, right?

SW-User
Yes. Oh well. I figure it's better that way.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
If there is something to connect to I connect and form a sort of attachment whether the person wants it or not. 😂 At least mentally. The problem is with conversations. I don't like to feel like a bother so if I see someone doesn't want to talk to me I'm gone like the wind.
latinbutterfly · F
@CrazyMusicLover Same here. Some don't seem to get the message though that the other person doesn't want to be bothered 😆.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@latinbutterfly I admit that sometimes it's hard to tell. Are they shy or disinterested or can't express their thoughts? Either way if conversation isn't natural there's no point in continuing it.
I am aware that I appear disinterested on here but it's not because I wouldn't want to say more but I'm often limited by the language. It simply takes too much time to form a meaningful reply. 😆
I am aware that I appear disinterested on here but it's not because I wouldn't want to say more but I'm often limited by the language. It simply takes too much time to form a meaningful reply. 😆
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
Yes...it happens.
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ABCDEF7 · M
Better to take your next step forward only when you see them taking a step from their own side.
sassypants · 36-40, F
Yes many times. The best thing is to just leave them alone and try not to take it personal.
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JollyLily · F
Like in SW or in RL?
latinbutterfly · F
@JollyLily Both.
Laughoften · M
Yep, all the time. 😥
firefall · 61-69, M
allllll the time
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Ferric67 · M
Yup
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Yes
Viper · M
Yeah 😅

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There are rare occasions where it really wasn't the right time.
There are even rarer occasions where the person sucks at signals. (I had a college friend reach out to me on facebook and tell me she had a crush back then. I asked her out in college and she said no... talk about confusing)
There are even rarer occasions where the person sucks at signals. (I had a college friend reach out to me on facebook and tell me she had a crush back then. I asked her out in college and she said no... talk about confusing)
candycane · 36-40, F
Yes and i do it too