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Is anyone else going through a mid - 20's crisis? 😂

Like you feel like you have absolutely no clue what you are doing with your life. You thought you would be married or at least in a relationship, with a baby on the way and a good job. But you're here dating guys who are dating 10 other people, no baby and you still have 3 years of uni left?
Yeah, same.

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Girlyfriendcollecting · F

no no crisis for me. I wish i was married though, i know married people say stay single but they forget how bad it was being single. I wish I had a friend who just wanted to keep setting me up with guys. none of them want to date me when I ask.i guess when your single and alone you look desprete to guys?

lauriethecolourful · F

@Girlyfriendcollecting I am guilty of a few of the things you are saying. I think looking desperate is a BIG turn off to a lot of guys because guys like freedom. But it's hard when you want that. I guess the right person wouldn't judge you.

lovelywarpedlemon

Ab-so-fucking-lutely

SW-User

LOL A lot of that sounds like aspects of my life even today... Still don't have a clue what I'm doing with my life but I've stumbled my way this far.

lauriethecolourful · F

@SW-User Everyone is saying that and it is not filling me with a lot of hope. 😂

SW-User

@lauriethecolourful I'm sorry. I spent most of my 20s in a haze of wanting to just feel better after a major break up. I feel like I lost so much time by not knowing what to do with myself.

Snowvixen

😂 Me! Cept, I am married, with kids, and finished college.

lauriethecolourful · F

@Snowvixen Hahaha. Jesus, so it doesn't get better?

Snowvixen

@lauriethecolourful Oh no! It does not! 😂

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

It's all about the journey, not the destination ;)

Jogadnbyt

Yeah mate still having mine at 31 lol

calicuz · 51-55, M

You're too young for marriage and children. Stay the course and finish university, then worry about life.

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lauriethecolourful · F

@calicuz I know. There is a guy, but he is dating like 20 other girls too. 😂

calicuz · 51-55, M

@lauriethecolourful

then he's NOT "the guy."

lauriethecolourful · F

@calicuz Yeah, I'm stuck in a very hard place with him. I am an insecure person, and he told me she is not seeing anyone else, but at least one other girl is telling me she loves him, so I don't know. Maybe I'm just crazy.

luctoretemergo · 61-69, M

As someone who has lived your lifetime twice....this is nothing...re-boot that thinking because this is the prime irresponsible time of your life.
No baby? No marriage...your fancy free and free for anything fancy (as the song says!)….LIVE MAN, LIVE!!!

jomsim · 26-30, M

Quarter-life crisis, yeah. Nobody at this stage of life knows what they want to be yet, and the way the world is, isn't exactly helping.

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jomsim · 26-30, M

@lauriethecolourful My parents were married and one of them was pregnant with me at the age I am now.

lauriethecolourful · F

@jomsim Yeah, same. My mum has me at 23 and my dad got married at 19.

juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F

@lauriethecolourful I'm way behind then 🙁🙁

CharlieZ · 70-79, M

😊 Each stage of life have a shake.
I should be in the 60´s and 2/5 of decade crisis.
With my own list of not done things.

CharlieZ · 70-79, M

Three grown up married daughters, three sons in law, a baby grandaughter.
Three Ex´es, two of them re married.
A dog called Princesa.

Yeah, a lot.

And what about my future Ex? Ehhhhhhhhh?😁

lauriethecolourful · F

@CharlieZ It's hard to have it all figured out at any age. I think the 20's is especially difficult because it's the age that we figure out that things probably won't work out the way we want them to. And people go through things at different stages of their lives. I have friends travelling around Europe alone and friends married with kids.

I'm somewhere in between. 😂

CharlieZ · 70-79, M

@lauriethecolourful I know well what you are talking about.
By when I was of about your age there were still mammooths, but felt somehow like you.
Also experienced, as a dad, the till-now crisis of three daughters (and as a single parent).
Yeah, it´s hard.
But Will be better and worth of it.🤗

juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F

Haha

midnightsun · 26-30, M

I will have crisis everyday until I reach my goals of getting rich before 25

Just learned to suck it up and deal with it

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lauriethecolourful · F

@SW-User I know it could be worse. Of course if could. But for me, this wasn't the plan. 😂

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easterniowegin · 51-55, M

Why do you want kids, etc if you're still at uni??

lauriethecolourful · F

@easterniowegin I thought by now I would be finished with uni and in a job. Life got in the way and I wasn't able to go till last year.

I don't think kids and marriage will be on the table till near my 30's now.