Are you comfortable

Watching a sex scene (not porn) with your parents?

I wouldn't mind watching it with my mom but it'll be super awkward if it were my dad

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KayraJordyn · F

I'm not comfortable watching a sex scene on my own. It either feels super manufactured or too intimate for me to assume I should be a part of the viewing party. I would have sucked if I were a noblewoman at court in Tudor times during a bedding ceremony!

But in all honesty, I'm somebody who has waited her entire life for marriage. I find sex to be as spiritually significant as it is physical.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@KayraJordyn had to look up the bedding ceremony. Oh damn

karysma · 36-40, F

@KayraJordyn Wish everyone in the world felt the same way about sex. Do people still do the bedding ceremony 😀

KayraJordyn · F

Haha. @bhatjc

KayraJordyn · F

@karysma oh goodness, I hope and think not.

karysma · 36-40, F

@KayraJordyn I can't imagine doing it while people watch. That would be super awkward 😂

KayraJordyn · F

Seriously. I'd sooner fly out a castle window than have creepy observers infiltrate my wedding night! (I have, however, been watching too many period dramas.) @karysma

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@KayraJordyn Maybe some of those ladies did jump out the windows or even the guys

KayraJordyn · F

Oh, I don't know. Women tend to chose to use their wiles instead, and men have a hard time saying "no" to sesual activity in the end. I mean, they'd have to REALLY not be into it. That does certainly happen, though. To each their own. @bhatjc

I'm just glad I didn't ever join the game. The rules change, and nobody seems to truly win. I'd rather be in it for the right reasons. Even at 32. I'm happy to be where I'm at.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@KayraJordyn that is true. Amen to that. You be you girl. I'm the same boat 🥂