You know what I wonder?

The truth of the matter is that she's looking for something that you aren't doing...or waiting on something you aren't saying....even if she's never specifically mentioned it.....she believs she's hinted enough. And remember that little things...sincere and often mean the most to her.

Actually it was a bit of a joke on myself....I've learned to just let her talk and then ask her to tell me more....not trying to fix which for a man is hard. These are the moments when I have learned the most

Just pay attention to what she’s saying and respond accordingly. You don’t even have to talk about yourself

By how he's responding to her via words and/or emojis.

Or not responding...maddening yes.

Yeah, that must be your problem...