Are "blue balls" a real thing ?

these answers are confusing me i thought blue balls were universally understood among men or agreed upon to me blue balls only happen when stimulated for prolonged period of time and denied release and your balls actually get a purplish hue and it can be much more than dull ache it can actually be painful depending on how aroused you were but it isnt dangerous and the male CAN finish or cure the problem himself. orgasm being the only "cure" some ar you talking about just not getting any lately doesn't qualify as blue balls to me that just trying to get sympathy fucks