Are fetishes really that bad or or people just uneasy to experience them...

@MethDozer great question. I don't know the Oxford definition but I'm pretty sure it defines your desire as abnormal...

@MethDozer Short answer is an intense and persistent sexual arousal to non-living objects (think diapers, shoes, panties, ect.), including some body products (think pee) or body parts (think feet for example) that are objectified.

@DaneSiv That could be one. That's what people commonly use it for.
More so, in the clinical sense, it falls into the relm of needed crutch sexual arousal to non-sexual items and actions. It becomes obsessive and often negatively effects a persons social life and emotional states.
That's when the "fetish" becomes problematic an pathological issue.
Strictly speaking there's clear distinction between an arousal trigger and "kink" and a true fetish.

@Subsumedpat Aye, some clinicians also include actions of the sort. However we need to know what the OP's use of the word implies to answer him correctly.

@Subsumedpat absolutely... there is a psychological reason for this I'm absolutely sure... such is my searching on why im so... the intensity though is fueled by it being weird to the world...

@MethDozer tell me more...

https://similarworlds.com/2449251-I-Am-Facinated-By-Human-Behavior/428934-What-causes-all-these-fetishes-It-makes-no-sense