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When someone sends you an SW gift do you always send one back?

If I send one and don't get one back I feel like I'm annoying them. 😬
summerwind · 41-45, F
It's a gift not a trade or exchange. Eccept it as a gift and don't worry about it
Lilymoon · F
@summerwind I was more thinking it's me sending the gift and not getting one back. And yeah no biggie just wondering 🤷‍♀️
TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M
Probably they are dealing with currency deficit.
Lilymoon · F
@TheOrionbeltseeker ahhh maybe 🤭
Mooed78 · F
Is it SW etiquette?? I get confused by it too lol 😆
Lilymoon · F
@Mooed78 I dunno I feel bad if I don't send one back Lolol
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
I send a couple nudes back.

That’ll teach em
No... A friend and I have been working on undoing some of my childhood trauma over the past few years - and that includes me learning the concept of "I owe you nothing".

On the whole, I think I'm doing okay with that... though I do tend to bounce different scenarios off him from time to time because he knows me well enough to get an accurate picture of my thought process better than many.

I don't owe anyone here a gift in return - especially when I look at the profiles of some of the men on here and I see that they have no gifts at all... or months on end of gifts from only me.

I typically send my man quite a few gifts, or he would go for months with no gifts at all - aside from that, it depends on what mood I'm in.
Lilymoon · F
@HootyTheNightOwl Fair enough. 🤗
SW-User
Yeah I know the feeling 😌

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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I do.
Sometimes I just get a private message or thanks on whiteboard. Which is always appreciated
Sometimes no acknowledgment at all... I try to not worry about it.
Lilymoon · F
@Justmeraeagain Yup everyone is different 😀
SW-User
I don't expect one back when I send one. It would be good if you could just heart a gift.
Lilymoon · F
@SW-User or even just acknowledge it 🤷‍♀️
SW-User
@Lilymoon There's always a private message, but a lot of people here don't seem to like them
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
I have had many times I have not realized a gift was sent until months later, then I send one back.
i usually do. sometimes i mean to send one back and then forget. 😳
Lilymoon · F
Pfuzylogic · M
I agree. There seems to be an inequality of a relationship transaction there.
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
I do or at lease send them a thank you message
Lilymoon · F
NeoNeo · 46-50, M
I send one as a thank you. It's not necessary though
calicuz · 56-60, M
Yeah, I always send one back.
MrAboo · 36-40, M
Always. Otherwise I feel like I took advantage. I don’t get many gifts on here, but I’m not complaining.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I usually do because I have a ton of coin burning a hole in my pocket.
Lilymoon · F
@Starcrossed me too 😆
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
No, and i didn't not expect one when i am the first to send.
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
not alway

too busy eating all those lily butter tarts 😋
SW-User
I'm spending too much on gas to buy gifts.
Lilymoon · F
@SW-User 🤣
let me send you something...
what do you want?
Lilymoon · F
@fakable Aw you don't have to... and thank you:)
Teslin · M
I have always returned the favor
Lilymoon · F
@Teslin it's the nice thing to do
Iwillwait · M
I am not sure a gift need to be reciprocated.
Henal · 26-30, F
Depends who it is and the reason for it.
Nimbus · M
If I ever get one I might just do that ;)
Lilymoon · F
@Nimbus I'mma send you one 🤭
Depends why I've been sent it
hunkalove · 61-69, M
Yes, I send one back.
SW-User
Yeah. Often
popmol · 26-30, M
JustNik · 51-55, F
I do as a thank you because I’m more comfortable with that than pm. If I had no coins, I’d message.
Lilymoon · F
@JustNik Yep my thinking too
Usually. Or I at least thank them, generally. Some people don’t do either.
Lilymoon · F
@bijouxbroussard right ... I don't get that lol
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I don’t always send one back. I say thank you though. I never know what to send either 🤭.
Lilymoon · F
@iamonfire696 I was mostly thinking about when I send someone a gift..... and then get nothing back not even a thank you. And I went to all that trouble. 😩 Lmao
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Lilymoon Yah that’s just rude.
Lilymoon · F
@iamonfire696 oh well. 🤪
SW-User
I'll send one back, unless the gift was sent as "private". I won't even open it.
Lilymoon · F
@SW-User private blows 🙄
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