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Parent fail… I don’t even know what number we’re on anymore.

Had to take my daughter to her autism specialist this morning before work, so I was already rushing around trying to get everything done and get out the door on time. Got her to the appointment, got her to her day program, made it to work, trying to catch up…
…and realized I forgot her lunch.

Called them, and thankfully they have backup food for when parents have a brain fart like me. But then doctors called to schedule her next appointment in six months, and I don’t know why it always gets under my skin, but they asked if I’m her mom… then if I have legal guardianship.
And I know they have to ask. I do.
But it still irritates me every time, because I hate that I had to go to court to prove I’m responsible for my own daughter. And i get the legality of it all. The reasons. Still bothers me.
So yeah… I answered a little sharper than I probably should have.
Then immediately had to tell myself:
ma’am… calm your shit down.


Because apparently today we’re forgetting lunches AND having attitude. Cool. Cool cool cool.
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Bexsy Pinned Comment
we have putting Lego together this morning.

I think I've redeemed myself

You’re such a good mom
@BiasForAction thank you
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
I'm a special needs mom too...i know it's really hard sometimes
@Lilliesandlight it is very difficult trying to juggle everything yourself sometimes
caccoon · 36-40
What a day 💙💙 I'm sorry girl 🥺

I hope the rest of the day goes smoothly 💙
@caccoon thank you so much 💙💙

How're you feeling?
caccoon · 36-40
@Bexsy I'm getting better!!
@caccoon I'm so glad
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Do they not have it recorded that you`re her mother? I realize they have to take precautions, but after all this time they should know.
@Degbeme i just don't like getting snappy with people.I don't feel good when I do that afterwards
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Bexsy Understandable. But sometimes they leave you no choice. Anyway it`s all behind you now, big deep breaths and move on. 🥰
@Degbeme it is. I am.

Cofffeee
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
Your such a loving mom. Take it easy on yourself everyone makes mistakes.
@Captainjackass thanks buddy
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
Would you like me to flay them alive?
@basilfawlty89 just a limb. I don’t want to overreact
exexec · 70-79, C
If you need to scream, scream at me. I'm hard of hearing and thick-skinned.
@exexec thanks, friend
GoFish ·
one of the kids i babysat was autistic and he would do things and then say "good job" i guess he learned it at therapy idk.. but it was cute ☺🥰 he was a smart lil kid adorable 🥹
@GoFish shs signs thank you to me a lot 🥹
GoFish ·
@Bexsy awwww 🥹🥰
Some days are meant to test us, it seems. I'm the first to admit that I'm not good with frustration. Those little things that go wrong in clusters can seriously set me off. I think that you handled it admirably, you took a step back and calmed yourself down. You didn't smash your head into something (like I'd do 🙄).
@ostfuidctyvm thanks I appreciate it
Reject · 31-35, M
It’s understandable Bex. Admittedly working my job is a big reason for my patience when it comes to the pointless requests people have. Before I definitely got cross at times when I was having an off day. I appreciate all you’re doing despite the brain goblins!
@Reject i appreciate you too, S! So much
TrunkZ · 61-69, M
Silver lining.... Chipper was not activated. 😌😌
@TrunkZ yet..
H1raeth · 36-40, M
It's understandable, that you were a little annoyed.
@H1raeth maybe, still felt bad for it
Sutten · 36-40, F
@Sutten 🫂💙
@0uijaFinger ❤❤
@JoyfulSilence that's pretty cool

 
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